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erp

Gastric Sleeve Patients
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  1. This one I just don't have words for; I hope it make sense. Now that I have lost weight people are much more open about their weight biases. I have a coworker who keeps remarking how "happy" my husband must be now that I am thinner-- uh, he and I didn't know he was "unhappy" before. In fact he misses some parts of plumper me (butt/boobs). I was over 200lbs when I met my husband. Another person shared snide remarks with me about people who have "let themselves go and how unrecognized able they are". Both of these people knew me at my heaviest and now at my lightest.

    Confronting weight bias post WLS has been the most awkward thing for me, I feel unprepared to address it.


  2. I am apparently in the minority. I didn't have much before- relative to my overall size/weight but I like my little boobies now. From a 44C to a 34B. They hang low but they still point in the right direction so I don't care. I would only consider an augmentation if I were to get a lift and to even them out (they're sisters not twins :D).


  3. @@AvaFern is completely accurate. However many of us don't have healthy relationships with food. So while none of those things like eating and drinking will kill you, many of the rules are in place because of our unhealthy behaviors with food.

    OP, I think having doubts is good.

    What you haven't mentioned is what you will do differently, beyond surgery to be successful. Will you start exercising? I did, I even hired a trainer to help me get started. Will you work with mental health professionals? You may already based on your anxiety/depression- so how about your emotional eating? Will you bring support people into your life? I still go to support group meetings a few times a year.

    Doubts are good. They mean you need a plan. Go make one.

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