augustkiwi

I literally dont care what anyone thinks, i tell anyone who will listen, some people have expresssed opinons that they dont think i should do it but i havent had anyone be mean to me, but they probably wouldnt go there anyway because they know i would give it right back. i leave tomorrow morning to be sleeved by dr aceves in mexico and i cant wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I tell anyone who asks about my weight loss how I did it. BUT, I have a different personality than many. I'm not intimidated by many people and I have no problem standing up for myself. At one time, my "level" was sleeve evangelist. I think that's a perfect title for me. I find myself wanting to tell obese strangers about my surgery and success so far!

I was just sitting here smiling the entire time I read your post because I empathize with each and every situation you describe. So many times I feel alone, and think im silly, for the way I think. Im planning a trip to Las Vegas soon and I DREAD the plane ride because of being stuck in a tiny seat next to someone. My best friend is a size 6 and when I go clothes shopping with her I feel so out of place, I almost need a martini before hand to deal with it . Thanks for sharing your thoughts, and so you know, your not alone!

Keep your head up! I know the feeling of being afraid of what people think about you. We are making the best change we can make... but for us, not for them! They are just ignorant people who need to learn what it is like to struggle with something!
Good Luck on your journey

Girl, those words could be coming out of my mouth! I am a very friendly person. Outgoing and love to laugh and visit with friends and family. But with the extra weight, I don't wanna "be seen". Your younger sister is right!! That is exactly how I am getting back to being upbeat now. I keep thinking....It's all better from here. Next year this time I will be thin! I'm gonna rock! and so are you!!!!

Trust me, I understand!!! OMG!!! I had to fly to DC for a conference during the summer and WOW... I'll NEVER fly Southwest again for any reason (I hope!!)... It was thoroughly embarrassed and offended when the boarding agent attempted to make me purchase an extra seat on an almost empty flight!!! There were 40 people on a 757!!! REALLY??!!! The supervisor snapped on him!! I was horrified!! But, it made me see again how blatant discrimination against obese people is prevalent and tolerated in most cases...
But, we are starting a new journey that will lead to greater and better days!!! Best wishes

Congratulations on your decision! When I read your post I identified with so many of the things that you said -- my BMI is about the same as yours, I was diagnosed in 2010 with Type 2 diabetes, I have PCOS and high blood pressure. I never thought that I would need surgery to handle my weight problem either -- but my doctor explained the sleeve surgery to me and I did my research. I definitely need the help in losing this weight and getting my health back on track.
My surgery was on 9/23/11 in Plano, TX and I am already off of my blood pressure medicine AND my diabetic medicine! You are doing the right thing for your health and happiness. I wish you all the best!