SummerMarie

I guess I don't understand why she is the way she is.. I know that she is jealous that I have her baby boy ( ugh) And my husband does defend me but he thinks she's harmless and doesn't realize what she says and does is hurtful .. I steer clear of her. If she could attach him to her noob again or wipe his ass she'd be happy with that.

So I have a few bariatric support groups I'm a part of and there is one on Facebook my mother in law joined... Every time I post something she has to post as well.. Either negating what I say or something to put me down because she is down more weight than I am in less time.. She had RNY and I had the sleeve.. I'm just so irritated that she feels she has to be better than me or say hurtful things for no reason.. Just had to vent. There isn't much I can do. I did remove myself from the group now..

Can I love this!! Lol

My oldest starts school next week.. Pre-k.. So she's going half days. I figured since I will be going out everyday why not make the most of it and it won't be weather permitting I go jogging or walking.. I have a 2 1/2 yr old and the have daycare there which is great for her because she starts dance as well!! I work 2nd shift so this will be worth it while I work nights!!

It kind of does.. Lol it's not that I want to see her fail.. Just knock her off her pedestal .. Lol

That is the truth.. Unfortunately last summer during a cook out she drank a little too much and proceeded to tell everyone how much she hated me when she met me because I took her son her best friend her baby boy from her.. I was mortified.. I had, at that point had been looking into having the sleeve.. The minute I had it done.. I mean minute.. She was on the phone with my surgeon and literally was on them so bad she was approved with in days.. She literally completed the process that took me 3 months in 2 weeks.. She is down more than I am but I'm not upset about that. I would like a smaller number but I'm happy thus far with the results .. She just makes these digs.. Really irritated by her actions

I would love to do that. She does not know about this app and I'd like to keep it that way! Lol

I took some advise and got off my ass and took my kids and dog for a walk.. Yesterday and today.. No junk food for me.. Back to basics and I feel pretty good. I have about 25 lbs to go and I'm hoping by Christmas that will be gone for good! I figure that's a pretty attainable goal to achieve in 4 months!

LOL!! I noticed that too!!! Thank you!

Here's a lil motivation for myself.. A lil before my weight loss and not even my heaviest and the last one was about 2 weeks ago.

I am 11 months out of surgery and 90 lbs down. I am at a stall. The biggest stall ever. I have not lost a pound in like 3 months.. I have fluctuated up and down like 3 lbs.. We have just bought a house.. Moved and now my oldest starts preschool,, I need suggestions in how to get back on track and I haven't been as active as I was prior to moving. My elliptical doesn't fit in my new house.. We can't get it thru the door.. Any door .. I am open for anything and everything.. My eating habits have gotten worse and I find myself snacking more than I should. I just want to lose 20 more lbs and I am not using my tool properly and need to not fall back into old habits.

That's something I should look into that.. That would really help.

My sw was 258 and I am between 168-171.. I am probably not drinking as much as I should be. I have noticed that and I am still on top of my Protein but you are right I'm not drinking as much as I should be.

I have a before and after pic and its embarrassing. Lol

Ok so I haven't been doing good.. I haven't been motivated and I have been eating like crap. I woke up today and got on the scale.. Lets just say the days of me eating like crap did not go un noticed on the scale. I know there's no excuse for this and I did do 45 minutes of exercise after the scale shock. I also know I didn't come this far. To fall back into old habits.. My mother in law had the bypass and another friend of mine had the sleeve and my friend is down over 120 lbs and over a year out. My mother in law is down 100 and she had her surgery after me.. I'm down 90 and they are always on me like its a competition.. Or my mother in law will point out that she's down more than me to other people so lately I've let the stupid comments and their behavior get the best of me.. The thing that annoys me is my friend has no kids and all she does is work out at the gym and go to work.. My mother in laws kids are all grown and she just joined the gym.. Me? I have 2 toddlers and I work second shift getting home at midnight and I don't have 2 days off in a row.. I'm sorry to vent but I am just sick of the negativity from these two.. Instead of saying wow congrats you're down 90 lbs its more like oh well when you lose 100 we will celebrate..

I'm stalled.. I've been stalled for a while and as frustrating as it is I almost wanted to just stay where I am because I'm not unhappy with my weight. I feel comfortable now but I want the number on the scale to be less...I haven't been as on top of my protein and exercise like I should be so here I am.. Tracking and exercising once again.. Surgery 9/20/12 Sw 258 Cw168

Finally hit 90 lbs!!!!! I have about 23 more to go but I am so happy! Yay!!

Thank you!!

Ok so I haven't worn shorts since I was probably in grammar school and today for the 1st time in over 20 years I put shorts on and I didn't feel fat or gross.. Just a lil pasty white!!! Yay!!!

I've been there and am still there.. I hit a stall 4 months out and then lost slow and I'm 7 months out and again have been at a stall for the past month.. It sucks.. Lol

Thank you everyone!!! I needed that and did bust my butt this morning and will continue to every day!!! I have 30 lbs to go and I will do this!

I fell off track the last 2 weeks and there is no excuse. I have barely exercised and have eaten plain crap so it's time for my wake up call!!!! Back on track today!! Tracking every last thing I put in my mouth and exercising this morning. I didn't so all of this to fall back into old habits. I'm better than that and will show myself I can do this once again!! Sorry to vent ... Just don't know where the lack of drive came from .. My battle is far from over and I need to just get back to basics.

I found a before and after pic if me and here it is... It's hard to even look at the before because I knew I was big but didn't see just HOW big .. It's embarrassing to post this but I know we have all been there..