jlbachmann

I just read all of the posts. I thought I was the only one who had a hubby like that. My husband met and married me at my current weight. (Getting banded on Monday, 10/8). But, about a week ago, he told me the reason we didn't have sex, (it's been almost a year) was because he found my body very unattractive, he even flicked my belly. We have only been married 2 1/2 years. He said it is just too hard to have sex with me. I almost told him if he had something a little bigger to work with it wouldn't be so hard. But, I was too devastated to respond. I can barely look at him now...he has tried to hold my hand and I just pull it away. He said he was sorry, but it is too little too late. He says he loves me for me...WTF! I appreciated what all of you had to say. I feel like I am not alone in having a d**k for a husband sometimes. Thank you.