I understand your point, but every word I've posted on this thread still stands, and I'm going to add a few more.
If you think the response to this thread was harsh, you ain't seen nothin' yet. I can direct you to another online band forum frequented by people with the consideration and sensitivity of Attila the Hun.
Also, when interpreting and reacting to posts on any online forum, keep in mind that these are people you may never meet in person. You can't hear their tone of voice or see their body language, so you have to decipher words that are, in a sense. out of context. My best friend, whose honesty I cherish, can say things to me that would make me smack another person for saying, because I know she loves me and wants the best for me.
Finally, consider the possibility that "tough love" sometimes does us more good than coddling when we're headed down a bad road.
I sure hope you were being sarcastic when you said that stuck episode made you happy, because judging restriction by the number of eating problems you have is a really bad idea. I've seen too many bandsters who rejoiced at frequent eating problems later cry very big tears when they learned that careless eating or a too-tight band had caused a band slip. Don't go looking for trouble!