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Dont get worked up over other peoples ignorance. Its a complicated world we live in. Every situation is diff. Thats why its so hard for people to understand. Bodies are different, minds are different . And it goes on.. and like lucie said " know your limitations." ..

Learning the psychology behind the reasons for your loss of control with food will be helpful and add to the success of your weight loss journey. Your journey will present challenges every day...and emotionally if you are strong enough to meet them it will enhance your success with weight loss.
Best wishes as you begin your journey...

Congratulations on your decision. Your strength, success and kindness will be reflected in your son and that is a gift you receive, deserve and will cherish! I am sure your success will be incredible and fully satisfying!

This is a great life long gift you are giving your son. Not only a healthy mom but a great role model of how to live a healthy life!

Good luck guys!! I go for my pre-op tomorrow and surgery is Tues. the 21st!! excited and nervous.. let me know how it goes!! good luck<3

My surgeon suggested about a week off and a 20 lb lifting restriction for a few days. I think if you're careful about your lifting and make sure to take time to sit, you should be ok. Might be sore but that's managable.

Can you sit while working? That will help alleviate it. Or if you did the surgery late in the week so you have your few days plus the weekend? It is really a personal challenge whether you can do it. People react very differently after the surgery. I felt really good a few days out but I also know I have a very high pain tolerance.
Good luck to you and congrats!

I've been off 10 days and I love that I have taken so much time off. It makes me only concentrate on recovery and proper eating. I was banded on Aug 6.