SweetTee

Ok, so originally I was pondering having VSG surgery sometime in November (by being in school and working, November looked like a better month for me) then because I was so anxious to have it done I said screw it, I'm going in October. Well wouldn't you know it, I have a serious schedule conflict with every date I have chosen. I haven't changed my Oct 9th date as of yet, but I know I will have to. If I could only pick a time that wouldn't conflict with work and school! With that being said, I may not be an October sleever after all. I'm now extremely frustrated! I won't update again until I'm leaving on a plane! (or at least until a few hours before surgery)! Signed Severly aggravated

I've had 4 c-sections, an appendectomy, a cholecystectomy, and a laparoscopic hysterectomy. I am extremely nervous about possible scar tissue and the sleeve being a lot harder because of it. For those of you that have had the sleeve already did your procedure take longer? Was your recovery harder? I think it was easier for me to get up and move after my 1st c-section because u knew that moving would help my recovery move along faster.

Hi! I'm SweetTee a 37 year old married mother of four(17,16,8,6). I am a Registered Nurse and a full time Family Nurse Practitioner Student residing in Louisiana. I am scheduled for VSG with Dr Garcia at Mi Hospital on October 9, 2012. I am 5'1 at 232 lbs...well actually 226 now. I have started a pre op-pre op diet and managed to lose five lbs. I've been overweight for far to long and I am ready to claim my life back from obesity! I never noticed I no longer had cheek bones and chin bones until I started looking at the before and after pictures of others! WTH, I've been in serious denial of my addiction to food! Can't wait to start a new journey. I'm nervous but ready!

Had to push surgery back a few days due to scheduling conflict. It's Oct 9,2012 now. So that makes 40 days also. Nervous, praying for a successful surgery, and ready to get it done.

First let me start off by saying that I do not condone drug use of any kind. I hear you saying that he's changed and left the drug usage alone however he still smokes weed? Isn't weed considered a drug? In all actuality that would mean he's still on drugs, right? I can only assume that this must mean he was doing some harder drugs at one time. How will you feel about him doing this around your baby once you guys do manage to conceive again, because If he's ready for a family, he has to ask himself if the marijuana usage is more important to him than you. Second, let me say that I try to never tell a married person to leave their spouse. Many people will have various opinions, but the vows you made were for "better or for worse" and I do believe that people can change if they want to. You said that he changed and left the other drugs alone, so I have to believe that he could also leave the marijuana alone. Living with others can place a strain on a marriage. Especially if your family feels compelled to comment on things going on between you guys. But just being totally honest with you, he sounds very immature and a bit controlling if he doesn't want you to spend time with your family, hell you're living with them! How could you possibly not spend time with them? And he's arguing with you cause he can't smoke weed. He shouldn't want to smoke weed in your parent's house out of respect for them and their property! I'm sure he knows that they would not approve. I'm sure he does feel trapped. Hopefully you guys can get your own place sometime soon. Sit your husband down when the two of you can talk rationally and explain to him how you feel. Listen to his concerns and let him know that you are dedicated to this marriage 100%. Explain to him that you understand that he may feel trapped, but you appreciate him making this effort to make the best out of your living situation. Most men need to feel needed. Maybe he feels as if you don't need him since you're with your family now. Mostly explain to him that you don't want to keep argueing. Sometimes in the heat of an arguement, it's best to say "Baby, I love you, but I don't want to keep argueing with you right now." and walk away and give both of you time to calm down. Once you've stepped back, you can sometimes look at things better and think rationally. I pray things get better, because right now you should be focused on recovery. Good luck and God bless.

Good for you, keep that positive mindset! Maybe some of it will rub off over here on me, LOL. I keep telling myself that all will be well, but the little voice in my head creeps in sometimes saying "what if you have a problem". I'm binding all of that negativity up in the name of Jesus and dismissing it from my mind. It's good to know that I'm not alone in the second guessing of myself sometimes. By next October, and hopefully 100lbs lighter, I want to look back on this day with a smile thinking about how far I have come.

I have to keep telling myself that I will not be able to eat the same. The strangest thing is until I started to see myself in pictures and seriously consider WLS, I didn't realize I had a problem with food. I guess I was so far in denial about my weight and especially about my poor eating habits. In my mind I didn't think I ate that much, but now that I'm waiting on surgery, I realize that I will snack all day (Cookies, chips, cheese, sodas) in addition to eating three overly proportioned meals! I know that this will be a hard road to travel, but I know that it's able to be traveled by interacting with people such as yourself. When I read success stories and see pictures and the smiles on poeple's faces, I realize that IT IS POSSIBLE! And I know by following the BLOGS and posts that it comes by hard work and perseverance, that's why I'm so thankful to you and all the others for sharing your experiences. My hubby has always been thin. He lifts weights and exercises daily, so he can't understand my struggle. Although he's very supportive, he just can't relate to being overweight. I lean on this forum for knowledge and support and I am so thankful for you guys.

Well stay on it girl! I'm sure they will easily resolve the issue so you can continue with your date of Sept 5th. I'm rooting for you and wishing you all the luck in the world. Keep us posted!

Congratulations and good for you! You look great! It's so good to see and read about the success of others. It gives me hope for the future and reminds me everyday that I'm doing the right thing. Thanks for posting.

You go girl! Great job!

Capt, I like the new profile pic! OAN, good luck to all of you being sleeved soon! My GF spoke highly of the recovery house, she said she felt like she was in a RealWorld house, meeting new friends and getting the opportunity to bond with people who were all going through the same thing she was. She keeps telling me I will miss out on the experience of a lifetime.

So glad to hear that everything went ok and you're on the road to recovery. Can't wait to share in your weight loss victories along the way!

I am so sorry that you are having a difficult time and I pray that you began to feel better really soon. As long as your not taking in enough fluids, you will feel bad and your body will let you know it. I know it's hard trying to force yourself to drink especially when it causes you to dry heave. Having no appetite and being sensitive to smells makes it extremely difficult to put something in your mouth. Are you dry heaving from reflux? Are you just simply feeling nauseous? As hard as it may be, you're going to have to force yourself to eat and drink. I agree with the earlier posting suggesting that you try some carbs, some sort of caloric intake is necessary. If all else fails, buy some unflavored Pedialyte. They also have the pedialyte freezer pops and powder packs. The makers of Pedialyte also make EleCare in an unflavored powder, this is usually given to babies who can't tolerate whole protein. Ensure makes a clear and a high protein shake, but they still have a milk consistency (if that thickness bothers you, then they might not work). At least if you use some of the pedi products, you may be able to mix them in water and make it tolerable. Source Naturals also makes a Pea Protein Powder that most vegetarians use, it's not milk based or made from animal products so it will be easier to tolerate. I suggest purchasing some of the Pea Protein Powder and pedialyte. You've got to get your fluids and protein in order to start to feel better. As far as the depression goes, it's understandable with what you're going through. You are human and we all experience these emotions. Do not make any DNR decisions while you are in this state. I haven't been sleeved yet, but from reading posts on this forum, I can safely say that things will get better. I have read numerous post where the writer spoke of feeling depressed and wanting to give up because they were feeling so bad, but if you continue reading they always spoke of turning the fence and feeling so much better as time went on. It's still early on so don't beat yourself up to bad. You know that with God, ALL things are POSSIBLE!!!! Keep the faith Jesus says, "if you have faith as a mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, move from here to there, and it will move; and nothing will be impossible for you" [Matthew 17:20. Remember, we are all here for you, and I just as many other people here on this forum were placed in your life for a reason, lean to God and lean on us! Praying for your speedy recovery!

Good luck and congratulations on your big day! Keep us posted.

Praying for your speedy recovery!

You look great!

Great job!