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I got my first fill yesterday, and my doctor wouldn't tell me the amount! He said that he's found it counterproductive to tell patients because they fret about whether it's too much/too little. All he would say was "it's the standard amount for a patient with a 10cc band." I thought about pushing the issue - because legally, I do have a right to know that information - but I like my surgeon a lot and decided to just chill out. So far, I feel fine and the liquids are going down fine. How long do you have to stay on liquids? I was a little bummed because I thought it was just 24 hours for me, but then when I re-read the materials to prepare for my appt, I saw it was 48+ hours!

I had my first fill yesterday and diet is 24 hrs clear liquid, then 24 hrs Protein shakes, then there's a limited list of mushy foods I can have. They didn't give me guidance after that so I assume I can advance to a regular diet as tolerated. What were your doctor's dietary instructions post-fill?

Did your doctor recommend eliminating caffeine? If you drank beverages with caffeine pre-LB, do you still drink them? For me, my dietician did recommend eliminating caffeine, although strangely, I could never get a clear answer on *why*. After reading several articles, different practice recommendations, and information from Allergan, I have resumed drinking 1-2 cups of coffee in the morning. I haven't had any soda, but that wasn't a big deal for me to give up because I rarely drank it anyway.

Honestly, it probably took me 8 or so days. Just periodic feelings of regret, anxiety, "OMG what have I done", random pains, etc. Post-op was much more painful and challenging than I anticipated. I was banded 5/30 and overall feel MUCH better mentally and physically. Hang in there and go easy on yourself. :-)

My doctor sells that brand and makes patients use them for the pre-op two week liquid diet. IMHO, they are disgusting. Every brand I've tried with comparable nutrition is much, much better tasting. Just my .02.

My surgeon basically said whenever I feel good enough. The fitness consult girl said start a regimine after 4 weeks (walking + weights). The nutritrionist yesterday said walking/biking now is okay, but no horseback riding (I own a horse and asked specifically). So, I haven't been told anything consistently. So far I've just done some walking at a moderate pace.

I totally understand your frustration, but remember that averages to over 1 lb per week, and that ain't too shabby! I keep hearing "expect to lose 1-2 lbs per week" and how exercise will be critical to maintain even that pace. *Especially* yesterday at my 2-week follow up when I expressed disappointment over losing only 3 lbs since surgery two weeks ago on 5/30.... (Disclaimer: Today the scale was down 2 lbs, making it 5 lbs, but still ....) I lost about 12 lbs pre-op, so I was giving this some hard thought last night (after I had a somewhat sarcastic pity party for myself). This is just like any other weight loss plan - eat less + exercise. And just like any other weight loss plan, it's gonna be sllllllllllllooooooooowwwwww for some of us. I'm still working on getting that mantra mentality down in small bites (along with my mushies - har har), but it's helped me to periodically give myself a reality check or two.

No offense taken here by anything anyone said. I started with a BMI in "only" the obese range. Had the surgery for several reasons. Are some of those vanity related? Yep. Are some health related? Yep. We all have our own intensely personal reasons. Would I be annoyed/frustrated/couldn't always relate to people with much less to lose if i started at a much higher BMI? Quite possibly. I think I'm just a "free to be you and me" type of gal and thick-skinned to boot, so none of this offends me. I like the candid discussion and different view points and frankly just shake my head at some of the holier-than-thou comments.

Anyone have ideas of a dish for a pitch-in cookout that I could eat while on the mushy stage? So far I've thought of taco dip (hold the chips for me) or a pie made with SF pudding and lite cool whip.

Mad Men!

Motts makes these applesauce pouch things that you can eat w/o a spoon. Also baby food pouch things. Pre-mixed Protein Shakes. banana (take tiny bites and smoosh it in your mouth). Stop at KFC and get mashed potatoes. A Campbell's "Soup at Hand". I've been on mushies 2 days ... can you tell I've given this some thought?

Nope, no catheter, thank goodness! Those things are the worst.

Yep, I've had awful pains in both sides. Mostly the right, but once the left. I was banded 5/30. Riding in a car makes it worse. It goes away if I can lie down with a heating pad under my back and shoulders.

I was banded last Weds (May 30). I've had the assorted aches and pains with the incisions and the pain with my port. Over the last 48 hours, though, I've been having very sharp, stabbing pains in my upper right abdomen. It's above where the incisions are, and it's inside my body. It sort of feels like the painful, stabbing side stiches you get when you exercise, especially after eating. It's painful enough that it takes my breath away. I have not exercised, and I'm still on full liquids and have been very careful with how many ounces I've taken in. I spoke with the surgeon's office, and they said it could be from the port. I just don't feel that it is - I believe I've had that pain, and this is a different pain. If it gets even worse, I'm going to call them again. Have any of you experienced this? '

PS - I also have had some drinkable Organic Valley LF vanilla yogurt. My instructions say "any thin liquid you could drink with a straw, but don't use a straw - sit up to drink"