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Minckle

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  1. Minckle

    Arrrgh stall :(

    Normal, normal, normal! Just stay off carbs as much as you can and the scale will move again. Plateaus are completely normal - this won't be your last one and they WILL pass.
  2. Minckle

    Anyone eating nuts?

    I started eating them about a month post-op and had no problems. Just start with a small amount and chew like crazy and you should be fine. I'm six months out now and there is literally nothing I can't eat. Even spicy stuff!
  3. Anybody taken the Juice Plus+ chewables and can share an opinion? I took the capsules while I was pregnant with my daughter and swear I felt better on them.
  4. Hi, friends. I had my sleeve done in June and I've lost almost 40 pounds - I'm about 15 pounds away from my goal weight. But the time since my surgery has been one of major change, not just because of my sleeve; I discovered my husband was having an affair and we are since in the middle of a divorce. Since his affair ended (aka she kicked him to the curb), he has made things very difficult; he has refused to get a lawyer or sign documents, begged me for another chance, threatened suicide, etc. My little girl is not taking the split well at all and I've been taking her to see a counselor as well. Did I mention that work isn't going very well either? I am not gaining weight, but the stress of everything has taken my focus off my sleeve. I'm still eating small portions for sure, but I'm not paying attention to WHAT I'm eating. And I haven't exercised in months. I realize that part of my lack of focus is that I'm really happy with my current weight. I'm a size 12 pant and I can shop in any store I want. People are raving about how I look and I've even been on a few dates. Still, I don't want to do this journey half-way. I want to make my goal weight, even if I'm only limping along right now. Can anyone offer some advice on how to get back on track? Or some cheerleading? Or a wake-up call?
  5. Minckle

    Anyone Else Married To An Alcoholic?

    Have you ever been to an AlAnon meeting? As the former wife of an alcoholic, may I highly recommend that you attend one ASAP?
  6. Minckle

    2Nd Day Pre Op Cheater!

    Just remember that sticking to your pre-op diet can lead to fewer incisions and faster healing time. If you can remember that right before you eat something off the diet, it might help! Headaches are usually a sign of caffeine withdrawal , btw.
  7. Cottage cheese, soft lunch meats, bananas, applesauce.....
  8. Minckle

    Stall Or Starvation?

    My first thought is that you're working out too much and may be pushing your body too much. An hour at a time is probably exhausting this early on - you need to recover. Try cutting down your workouts to 30 mins at a time and see if that doesn't help your weight loss and your fatigue. Also, keep in mind that 2 pounds a week is GREAT. You will have stalls where you lose ZERO pounds. Keep your chin up.
  9. Have you used any of the Gas-X quick dissolve strips or chewables? Those helped me a lot.
  10. Minckle

    Kinda Worried

    Call your doctor - you don't have to be that miserable!
  11. It's amazing to me how many stories I've read on here where the relationships with long-time boyfriends and husbands, etc. self destruct after this surgery. I've noticed this for a while and now I'M a victim, too. I'm a month out and I just learned that my husband has been having an affair with one of the admins at his work. He swears it never got physical, but the emails between them are toe-curling, so it was a very emotional affair at the least. Apparently, it started while I was in the hospital. He told me that it was my fault that he was drawn to her because he felt abandoned by how much I've been sick. Obviously, I had the sleeve to FIX the diabetes, apnea, joint issues, etc. that were keeping me feeling so badly. Which is why the timing of the affair is so heartbreaking for me. We are doing couples therapy, but I am incredibly hurt and I don't know how I will ever trust him again. I'd give up right now, but we have a beautiful daughter who is my #1 concern right now. I don't say all this for sympathy, but simply because I am really struck by the amount of stories like this I've seen on here. I guess this procedure is so life changing that it becomes a true crucible test for relationships.
  12. If you're taking something or using something for hair loss and you think it might possibly, actually, could be working.... tell me what it is, where you got it, etc. Thanks!!!
  13. Minckle

    5% of 1%?

    This video is 1:48 long. It pretty much stereotypes my opinion of most Christians. If you get through the whole video, let me know and I will mail you a cookie - er, I mean - some unjury chicken Soup.
  14. Very common due to the blood thinners you got.
  15. Minckle

    Acid Reflux

    I had it before, didn't have it at first, then got it with a VENGEANCE for a few weeks. Now I'm 6 weeks out and have none. Fingers crossed it's gone for good.
  16. Minckle

    No Support:(

    My husband told me I got the surgery because I was "too lazy to lose the weight normally". We're now in the middle of a divorce. You've got to do this for you - and your kids. You want to be around for them! If he comes around, great. If he doesn't, you still need to make the right decision for YOUR health.
  17. Minckle

    Dr. Nick On The 31St

    Congratulations! I lovvvvvvvvvve Dr. Nick - hope you have as great of an experience as I have!
  18. Minckle

    Low Energy.

    Pace yourself. 9 Days out is still new to the process! Just work on getting a little more protein and a little more fluids and walking a little more every day... and every day you'll feel a bit better - promise!
  19. My PA told me it's not a "fever" until it hits 101. I'm no MD or RN, but our home thermometer says the same thing. I would expect a little elevation to be normal, considering but your body just went through, but agree with Lissa that it might be nice to get some reassurance from a professional.
  20. I worked in a nice retail clothing chain throughout college and I can tell you that you would have to be wayyyyyy out of your size range for a salesperson to even blink about what section you are browsing in. People come in all different shapes and sizes so I never stopped being surprised whose butt fit into which size of pants! Even then, you could be shopping as a gift for someone else. Being able to fit a pinky toe into regular sizes is a huge accomplishment - keep your head held high. You belong there!!
  21. Outstanding! I bet old acquaintances don't even recognize you anymore. What an inspiration!!
  22. Minckle

    Ice Cream

    Freeze a banana in slices, put it in the blender with a bit of skim milk. It will turn the banana into a soft-serve like consistency. My daughter loves it, too.
  23. Minckle

    I Wonder What Celebrities Are Sleeved?!?

    Gastric bypass was so popular that Star Jones, Sharon Osborne, Al Roker, Carnie Wilson, Randy Jackson, Roseanne Barr all had it done and admitted it. I'm willing to bet that as the sleeve rises in popularity, we will see more celebrities. Some rumors I've heard of people who've had WLS but aren't admitting it are: Octavia Spencer, Jonah Hill, Jordin Sparks, Drew Carey, Khloe Kardashian, Kelly Osborne, John Goodman, Aretha Franklin.
  24. Today at lunch, without a thought in my head or a care in the world, I snarfled down the remainder of my daughter's McDonald's fries. I was watching her play and not thinking at all. When I reached for another fry and found the box empty, I literally bonked myself in the head in the middle of the restaurant! ARGH! I didn't slime (shocking!) but that was at 12:30 pm today and I am still feeling the discomfort 8 hours later. Had half a protein shake for dinner and will be back to liquids tomorrow to calm my poor little sleeve down. Just thought I'd share that complete DOH! moment with y'all for a bit of accountability. Old habits lie in wait for when we aren't paying attention!
  25. Great recommendations - though part of me thinks I deserve the ouch.....

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