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shelleyrn22

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  1. I was surfing this morning and found this post-op diet online. It amazes me how surgeons are all so different - and I honestly don't know if one is any smarter/better than another! How do they decide which pre/post op diet they'll use? Is it based on experience? Patient results? Science? Preference? Their own hang ups? What??? Anywho... just my rant for the 10am hour :)

    http://www.cornellweightlosssurgery.org/pdf/dietary_guidelines_sleeve_gastrectomy.pdf

    dietary_guidelines_sleeve_gastrectomy.pdf


  2. If food was a person, this is what I'd say.... (reminds me of the old country song Oh Whiskey, if you were a woman)

    Dear food,

    I'm Six days postop and wow... I never realized how much I depended on you for everything! I've discovered I counted on you to be my lover, my best friend, confidant, my everything. You were never meant for that! You were only meant for how I'm using you now - to sustain life and energy. Our divorce was final May 17th (surgery day) and there's no going back. I won't lie - I miss you, but this too shall pass. I feel incredibly guilty for allowing something so insignificant to control my life for so long... and still called myself a Christian. You will never take first place in my life again. This grieving process isn't easy, but it's necessary. You betrayed me... with my permission. No more. I am in control of you - in Jesus' name!

    Sincerely,

    Shell


  3. I was sleeved on May 17. Today was a bad day. When I went out I smelled every smell from every fast food' date=' pizzaria, bbq spot. I have to pick a new route to drive home. Tonight I discovered Diet Peach Snapple. It was like a GodSend. I hope it's Decaf. I took one too many sips and ugh! Now I'm a little queasy.

    Hang in there my friend.[/quote']

    Awe we share sleeve dates! I had a rough afternoon yesterday with head hunger. Amazing how much we ate out of just habit. I'm learning to eat to live instead of living to eat. Need a hobby!


  4. Thank you all! This is the worst disappointment..it's like giving birth and not having a baby!! The pain is horrible!! C- section was way less painful..but you all are right my dr did the right thing ..I did not follow the pre-op diet correctly..lessen learn painfully! He's putting me on strict diet and says maybe within 6 weeks we can try again...but truly I just don't know if I can put myself and my family through this again!

    I'm so sorry!! I'm thankful your surgeon didn't proceed! The pain will subside in a few days. My heart breaks for you. My advice: never give up.


  5. I swear I could have written this!!!! Prior to surgery, a perfect day to me was not having to leave home. Less than one week postop and I cannot handle being home for too long at one time. For someone with social anxiety this is very odd, but I also feel really good about getting off the couch.


  6. Hunger... *sigh* it's been a rough afternoon for me. Celebrated my first nsv, then it was capoot.

    I'm less than a week out and I'm already wanting something "different". I pretty much cried all afternoon. No regrets, but it's a grieving process for me. I'm grieving the loss of my life time friend, lover and companion - food. Yes, I knew this was part of "it" - blah blah. It still has thrown me for a loop.

    However - actual hunger - nope, not yet! Good luck to you!


  7. Wow... I had surgery on 5/17 and I just realized today how important the NSV's are. I just gotta say I LOOOOVE the new mini me - even though it's a work in progress! I've always been short n(5'2") and always felt like I was "too big for me". Make sense? I have sooo enjoyed eating and drinking out of my 1oz medicine cups, but I've gone on a shopping spree. I'm a lil over those cups - they remind me of working at the hospital.

    So I've bought several different baby spoons, baby bowls, baby forks, baby everything! I LOVE it! Ha! My purchase today: mini waters (8oz size - the bigger ones are just too overwhelming anymore!), but my favorite are 3oz disposable cups. My dr's office gave me one in my little care bag, and I used it already. I found them at WM by the other paper cups/plates. They are perfect. I've also bought several mini storage bowls. My boyfriend has officially banned me from buying one more dish or he's calling Hoarders. :D

    Silly lil NSV (the mini dishes, cups, etc.) but I love it... and think they're all so super cute! So... *cheers* to 3oz disposable cups! :D

    Shell


  8. Honey I feel your frustration! I'm able to do full liquids and I've come to enjoy baby food, mashed potatoes puréed with chicken broth, a lil bit of butter and some salt. It's my staple. It's filling, tasty and makes me feel like I'm "eating". I sent my BF to get some eggdrop Soup for me, but I was too chicken to try it. It looked really greasy. I've also been "eating" cream of chicken soup puréed/liquified. I tell myself constantly "it'll get easier". Link up with someone locally... Or from here that you can text, call, etc. when ya need to vent. Prayers!

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