mommyof3sweetboys

I am anxious to hear the responses....I have been concerned about this myself.

I am anxious to hear the responses....I have been concerned about this myself.

I think it's completely normal to have doubts. It's major surgery. I am a week away from my surgery and I'm not allowing doubt to come in anymore- I've made my decision and I'm sticking to it. I just keep praying for peace and protection- that's what will get me through. Good luck!!!!

What a great start! Don't let negative people be joy suckers.

I started at a size 16/18 and I completely agree with you. Contrary to what others say, most people say things like that because they really don't want others to succeed more then them. Just because I was a size 16, doesn't mean I was healthy at 229 pounds. Only we know how we feel and what our desires are. Kudos to you for taking the steps needed to be the best you can be. I had my surgery & I don't regret anything. I look forward to being healthy, happy and a size smaller than 16/18!

Great job, mommyof3!!!
I agree with kb88, they'll need to buckle up and hold on for your journey to hotness!! Congrats!

I went for my pre-admission stuff yesterday (chest x-ray, EKG, bloodwork), and I met with the doctor one last time before surgery. I was down 12 pounds from the 1st week of liquid diet (yay!) Here are some things I am trying to deal with right now:
1. My family is already in panic mode because I lost 12 pounds so quickly....it gets on my nerves because that is the point of the diet. Deep down I feel like it is just a form of jealousy maybe? That because I have been diligent and set my mind to do this they are kind of upset because they thought I would fail? Just thinking out loud.
2. While I was waiting to my paper work I met 2 very nice ladies that are also having the surgery. I was trying to give them encouragement that my good friend (whom I had gone to see before my appointment) had lost down to a size 4 pants since the last of August. They asked what size she was to start with and since I am not totally sure I guessed a 16-18 (she is short). There were negative comments about why did she even have it done- I wish I was a 16-18. Well, I am a size 16 (also short)....I qualified for surgery.......I feel terrible physically and know that this is the tool I need to get my life back on track. It just made me feel bad and like people will be judgmental because I did not wait until I was much larger to make this decision. I have not told a lot of people I am doing it but I expect that they will know something is up fairly quick (I hope so anyway ) I know, I know, quit worrying about what people think. I do let myself do that sometimes and I just thought if I got it off my chest here (and maybe hear from some of you that have dealt with this) it would make me feel more prepared to deal with it.
Have a great afternoon!!!!

I went for my pre-admission stuff yesterday (chest x-ray, EKG, bloodwork), and I met with the doctor one last time before surgery. I was down 12 pounds from the 1st week of liquid diet (yay!) Here are some things I am trying to deal with right now:
1. My family is already in panic mode because I lost 12 pounds so quickly....it gets on my nerves because that is the point of the diet. Deep down I feel like it is just a form of jealousy maybe? That because I have been diligent and set my mind to do this they are kind of upset because they thought I would fail? Just thinking out loud.
2. While I was waiting to my paper work I met 2 very nice ladies that are also having the surgery. I was trying to give them encouragement that my good friend (whom I had gone to see before my appointment) had lost down to a size 4 pants since the last of August. They asked what size she was to start with and since I am not totally sure I guessed a 16-18 (she is short). There were negative comments about why did she even have it done- I wish I was a 16-18. Well, I am a size 16 (also short)....I qualified for surgery.......I feel terrible physically and know that this is the tool I need to get my life back on track. It just made me feel bad and like people will be judgmental because I did not wait until I was much larger to make this decision. I have not told a lot of people I am doing it but I expect that they will know something is up fairly quick (I hope so anyway ) I know, I know, quit worrying about what people think. I do let myself do that sometimes and I just thought if I got it off my chest here (and maybe hear from some of you that have dealt with this) it would make me feel more prepared to deal with it.
Have a great afternoon!!!!

I think it's completely normal to have doubts. It's major surgery. I am a week away from my surgery and I'm not allowing doubt to come in anymore- I've made my decision and I'm sticking to it. I just keep praying for peace and protection- that's what will get me through. Good luck!!!!

My friend from work had her surgery last Friday. She had lost 13lbs. She and her hubby both had surgery. He's down 22lbs!

Congratulations on being through with surgery. Mine is on the 10th so I'm getting nervous. Keep updating as it gives me comfort. I hope I don't have to give myself shots but I will if have to to be safe! Glad you are doing so well.

Congrats

Congrats!! That's had to take a load off getting that approval.

You're only human. Are you allowed sugar free popsicles or sugar free Jello on this diet? They may help take the edge off. Good luck! You can do it!

I'm on day four and I'm on two Protein Shakes a day. They do help. But today I am really dragging. And so tired but it really is not as bad as I thought either.

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Starting day 4 and surprisingly none of the things I feared have happened- I imagined headaches, fatigue, grumpiness, etc. I feel amazing and I've only experienced true hunger pains like 3 times! I'm on complete liquids for 2 weeks: I drink GNC lean shake or advantEDGE shakes 3x daily, broth for lunch and sometimes dinner, sugar free jello/Popsicles and of course 64 oz Water daily. I expect to hear from dr office today about insurance approval. They told me not to worry that there wouldn't be any problems but I can feel anxiety creeping in! Surgery scheduled for March 10.
5'4"
Highest weight/starting weight 235

I am out of surgery and finally awake enough (kinda) to post an update! Surgery took a couple hours. My surgeon said that my liver shrank very well and that surgery went great! And no hiatal hernia!!! I have 5 lap sites. I have some aching pain in my belly, but the IV pain meds are working pretty well. The worst part is my mouth and throat are EXTREMELY dry and a little sore. I am allowed ice chips, but I have found that I can get too much for my tummy to take! I'm nodding in and out from exhaustion. I didn't sleep well the past 2 nights. Thank all of you that sent prayers and good vibes!

You can STILL eat many of the things you love.... just a lot less of it.
I am almost 1 year out and I will answer this to let you in on how I am doing.

Can you eat a whole apple? Yes

Can you eat rice and Pasta without discomfort? Yes, I can eat these, however, eating too much of it is not good for weight loss. I know of some people who can not tolerate these foods with the sleeve and some that can only slightly tolerate it. Then there are others, like me who can eat this just fine.

Do you ever have the occasional glass of wine with dinner? I am not a drinker so I no wine for me, but I do have drinks with my meals. Is it a no-no? I think this is dependent upon who you ask. Also, I have noticed that when I do have drinks with my meals it fills me up faster so I dont eat as much- but then I do get hungrier later on.

How have your close relationships been effected by your weight loss? Everyone around me has been real supportive. I have been honest with those close to me as much as I wanted them to know without becoming the 'food police' over me. My relationship with my husband has improved and so has our late night activities

Are you able to quickly drink a glass of Water on a hot day or after a workout? I can down a 16 oz bottle of Water in 10 minutes. A glass... maybe 5 min

If you were an emotional eater, what behavior have you replaced the emotional eating with? This is a good one. I am still struggling with this. As I ate out of boredom, stress, excitement, and sadness. The boredom usually exists when I am at the computer typing and that is here to stay. I have to always have something to drink next to me, and I am not talking about Crystal Crack (Crystal Lite). The a drink like water with frozen blueberries often will fill me up and keep me hydrated.

Do you have any sadness associated with the inablilty to eat a large portion of something incredibly delicious? Oh boy! I did at first. I was a huge foodie and loved really good foods. In fact food was often seen as a good friend back then. It really hit me when I was able to move into solid foods and hubby started making Texas sized steaks (that cover the whole dinner plate) and I looked at it as if I could still eat it all, but physically i couldn't and it didn't quite register in my brain that it wasn't possible. When Fondue night came around a buffet of little delights was all around me and all i could do was nibble on a few things while everyone else was gorging themselves full with delight. I WANTED TO BE LIKE THAT at that time period but ONLY in that moment. That was when I realized that I did have an eating problem and I let my emotions take over me. Not only was I eating HUGE portions but I would often eat to feel happy. I think around 5 months PO I became more settled with the thought that this was indeed permanent and old behaviors fell to the way side and new behaviors kicked in.

I seriously have to mentally prepare for this but I will do it. I'm so close to the finish line.

Re14768, I am so glad that you ran across this and saw what mommyof3sweetboys said. It is nice to be able to identify with someone through this battle. I hope that you insurance approves you and that you can get on with the surgery. I'll bet once it's over and your family sees how well you are doing they will get on board and be happy for you. Bless you.

Omg! You describe me situation to the `T'...I have all the what if's also..I have to young boys 8 & 11.. my hubby not to trill about wls. But he said he will be by my side all the way..mom & sisters were all for it. Even encouraged me to look into it..but since I got all into it and almost done..they turned against it..I can't even tell them I'm all done with my requirement. Cause I know they are not excited for me. I guess they have fears for me, so do I..it almost feels like i'm keeping a dirty secret about my surgery, since I didn't tell anyone. .I just pray to God, I have no complication and I will try my best not to complain to much around them. Even if I'm in pain..my package was submitted on Friday to insurance. .can't even call them to tell them..cause I know they are not happy. .very disharted!

You have a great attitude! Your system will be primed and ready for a smooth procedure and your new life. Very exciting!

I'm March 10 too...and on lovely day one of liquids. I'm pretty excited, but almost more scared of these two weeks than the actual surgery. This weekend, I could not stop stuffing food in my mouth. I felt so bad about it, but just couldn't stop. I'm going to give the two week liquids my all, though...to give myself the best chance of a safe surgery. It's just barely lunchtime on the first day, though, and I already have a headache and feel weak. Yikes! Tomorrow will be better, right? Ok, one day at a time.

I may be cranky after while when my family is chowing down on spaghetti. I purposefully chose things for supper this week that aren't my favorites, lol! Good luck to you on the 5th!!!