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Thats All Folks

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  1. If you're taking tiny bites and chewing thoroughly but still throwing up, then you're likely too tight. Btw, if you mean actually vomiting (rather than PBing) then you're putting yourself at risk for a slip. Vomiting is never good with the band and should be avoided at all costs. Call your doctor. Let him help you decide if you're too tight or not.
  2. Yup mine is too. It's awful, I look like a Shar Pei naked. I haven't had surgery to remove it yet but you better believe I'm going to! LOL!
  3. I am so sorry. Vomiting will definitely cause a slip, but what caused the vomiting? Was it a 4cc band by chance?
  4. Congratulations! You're doing fabulous!
  5. Protein powders: I'm a big fan of the unjury, the chocolate Splendor is my favorite. It can only be bought online though but here's the link to it: http://www.unjury.com/store/protein/ It cost $17.99 for a container that is 17 servings (+shipping) 1 scoop has 20g of protein The other brand I've been using lately is the Body Fortress Protein powder. It's not as good as the Unjury but it's not horrible. It's also a lot more affordable and you can buy it at Walmart. I like the Peanut Butter chocolate flavor. It costs $14.99 for a container that is 21 servings 1 scoop has 30g of protein
  6. How long did you have the band? What caused the slip?
  7. I'm sorry you're struggling. It's hard to break old habits. The band is great at dimming hunger but unfortunately it can't change our brains. It's like the popular saying- the band goes around your stomach not your brain. I would seriously consider some sort of counseling to help you cope. You recognize there is a problem and the band can't help with it, which is a big step in itself, but just like the band is a tool so is a counselor. As far as fills, I'd be honest with your surgeon and let him help you decide. Best wishes.
  8. Just don't scrub the incisions or steri strips. Wash the rest of you as usual but just let the Water run over the incisions without actually touching them. Don't be nervous, you'll probably feel a lot better once you get all that hospital ick off you!
  9. Your doctor is right, it has nothing to do with your band. I would suggest seeing your family doctor about it rather than your band surgeon.
  10. Head hunger is really hard to deal with. A popular saying around here is "the band goes around your stomach, not your brain". The bad is great at dimming the physical hunger but the head hunger is ours to deal with. I too have done what Cheznoel stated- taking just a very small bite of whatever I'm craving. I'm actually really careful to keep things I know are trigger foods and foods I'm likely to over eat out of the house, so if I really want some, I have to make a conscious effort to leave the house and buy it. Stick to your 1 cup portions regardless of head or physical hunger. It will get easier once you have adequate Fluid in your band. Best wishes.
  11. Hang in there, I know how painfully discouraging it is, but you're on the right track and regaining control of the situation. And don't bother buying any clothes right now because by fall they'll all be way too big anyway
  12. The average is 1-2 pounds a week, plus the first 4-6 weeks post surgery are for healing not losing, so yes it's very normal.
  13. I had my surgery 14 months ago and still have a protein shake for breakfast every morning because I'm just too tight in the mornings for real food. By lunch time, I'm fine and eat normal.
  14. I think a lot of us go through a sort of "last meal syndrome" before surgery. A lot of us actually go into a bit of a mourning process because we feel like we're losing our comfort and coping mechanism- food. We also have this mindset that you'll never be able to enjoy food again so we go bonkers eating everything in sight while we still can. I did this too, by the way. I didn't have a pre-op diet so I went nuts on food the week before surgery. I'm not proud of it and definitely wouldn't recommend it, but I definitely lost all food sanity for that last week. But here's the thing to remember and I wish someone would've told me when I was going nuts on food: It's not like you have to give up everything you love. You can still have what you love to eat (once you're past the post op healing diet) just in moderation. You don't have to say goodbye to food, you just have to learn to enjoy it in smaller amounts. The cool part is- the band helps you to do exactly that. I personally believe in moderation not deprivation. If I deprive myself I know I am setting myself up for failure. If I want pizza, I have a piece, not 6 like I used to. I have 1 cookie not 12. I have 1 scoop of ice cream not 5. The key for me is I don't have these things regularly and when I do, I do it in moderation and within my daily calorie allowance. But, nothing is off limits. Hang in there, this is a beautiful beginning for you, not an ending
  15. You should definitely plan taking some time off to heal, but the healing process is a lot easier and faster than Gastric Bypass. The post op stages and length vary by surgeon, but most start with liquids, then mushy food, then soft food, then finally back to solid food. How long each phase lasts depends greatly on the surgeon.
  16. Well I can tell you this, once you have the band and adequate Fluid in it, taking smaller bites and chewing thoroughly becomes a lot easier once you've stuck lol. Being stuck is no fun and sometimes even painful. For most of us, it's our first stuck episode that really gets us to start taking smaller bites and chewing our food until mush. It's not something we ever want to experience again. A lot of people find using baby utensils helpful to practice smaller bites. There's even different apps or your smart phone that are made to help you eat slower. Btw, you're doing a good thing to start thinking about stuff like bite size in advance. You'll do great
  17. Welcome Julie! I'm very sorry you had to endure an abusive marriage. My heart goes out to you. The band works beautifully, I think the trick is understanding exactly what the band does and doesn't do. The band is meant to keep you satisfied on less food for longer periods of time- which is does great. However, the band isn't mean to physically stop you from eating. So, even with the band, you'll still have to make good food choices and monitor your portion sizes. The thing with any WLS surgery, the key is lifestyle change. It doesn't matter which surgery you choose, you can and will gain the weight back if you regress back to old bad habits. So when you ask "will the band work?" Yes, the band will work but only if you do the work to be successful with it. As far as goals, I know many who've lost 100 pounds in a year so I think that's a very reasonable goal. Best wishes to you.
  18. I stated the 5%, and take it offensively if you must, but I don't know you or your story so obviously it wasn't aimed at you. And it is correct, by the way. There are numerous clinical studies that support that percentage. "Major complications requiring re-operation occurred in 106 (5.9%) patients."- http://www.obesitylapbandsurgery.com/statmain.html "About one in 20 patients had the band removed during the study period. (5%)"- http://www.futurity.org/health-medicine/weight-stays-off-long-after-lap-band-surgery/ You can't argue statistics based on facts.
  19. I agree with you totally. I see people come on here all the time that are seriously and totally clueless because their surgeons didn't educate them at all. Unfortunately, this is especially true of people going to Mexico for bands. I don't doubt Jackie's intentions, and I'm sorry for any misunderstandings, but unfortunately a lot of us are on the defensive because of band bashers and took her post the wrong way.
  20. I do after every surgery. When I had surgery in August (not band related) I weighed 7 pounds more when I got home from the hospital. I almost had a heart attack lol. But, within a week after, the 7 pounds were gone again and took 2 more with them.
  21. Wow...calm. I think the problem is the way you portrayed the information. It came across like another gloom and doom post against the Lap Band. If you really want to help people, they need to be aware of all the ways they can sabotage themselves with the band. Their greatest risk of severe complications isn't from their band it's from their own non-compliance and bad behavior.
  22. I have, and I've also had an infection, and believe me there's a BIG difference.
  23. I've had many incisions from numerous abdominal surgeries. Unless it's really foul smelling and/or the skin around the incision is newly red and hot to the touch, you'll be fine until Tuesday.

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