Julie norton

Changes can happen gradually and you sound like you are trying hard. Old habits are hard to break and you are confronting a lot of issues... Ex-hubby, divorce,kids(love them so much, but not so much in my house anymore)Diet, exercise. Pat yourself on the back for doing such a good job... On life, and on raising caring thoughtful children!!!

I'm jumping on the bandwagon! I was 51 and it was the best decision for me. Now I'm 60 and feel great And yes there are inconveniences... Nothing compared to dragging around 100 extra lbs. though Go to a seminar if you need to see the ages of prospective clients. In my group they are all over in age... You can have a better life without the internal struggle. I always had it and finally The hunger monster is tamed for now. I am eased to be happy and healthy Good luck and keep posting!????

Just adding that a new vegan cheese is being developed and released to good reviews. I have not tried it yet but all write ups said you did not have to hide it in casserolesike the original. Just use it like ordinary dairy cheeses.... Sounds promising. Not sure of protein count?

Strangely enough, going out for fresh fish is a real treat for me! Sheesh! Never thought I would really say that. This week I made twice baked potatoes . I can have the broccoli and potato mixed up w/ some cheese and leave the skin ( too clogging for my band) I'm with Liz on the couple of bites of something yummy if I'm out. food just can't command my attention like it used to. Thankfully!

It is so nice to hear from people working their band successfully... You seem to have your mindset right, and look ... Already rewards coming your way. And they seem to keep coming if you do your part. Congrats!

I, too, was pleasantly surprised by the lipo done in the ladygarden. Now in my work out gear, things are seeming normal instead of protruding like they seemed before . Just a nice side benefit of a flat stomach at 60... What a wonderful thing to be able to reshape a few parts!! And I totally agree that the first 2 weeks of recovery were not easy or simple ... But so glad 12 weeks out

Truly amazing how we have adjusted our eyes to our stomach. Always heard your the other and served myself too much of ... Ok everything Now a very small amount is just fine Took me years and yet I still stumble occasionally ... So grateful for a procedure that changed my life in 2006. I am truly a different person in a different size than I was ... And I do love me now That was a long hard road????

Good job!!. Keep working the basics and COMPLY. It will get you where you want to go . I learned over the years to quit challenging my band. It is hard to not go back to bad habits, but since I don't like the consequences ....literally 8+ years.. I'm still learning. Sigh I still think occasionally I will have a Late snack ( head hunger when I'm tired) and it DOES NOT work out well So I learn again and keep trying. Happy and healthy with one hundred lbs gone. A whole new life... Best of luck!????

I am thankful everyday that I am able to feel like I am navigating this world from a " normal" size.. Whatever that is to each of us. Thrilled to not be obsessed about diets or calories .....or driven by hunger!!!! I am also thankful for feeling successful with my weight for over 8 years... I could not feel like that before WLS

I second Jamie's thoughts about 10 days off. I had TT w/ plication march 10. The first 2 weeks were no joke like she said. I was very glad for pain killers. Week 3 was better and I could walk outside and stand upright finally and went back to work part time. The 4 th week was way better and I resumed all except work outs.... You gotta wait 6 weeks for real work outs because if you get a micro tear it hurts for a long time and cannot be surgically fixed. Good luck! There is lots of info on plastics here... Tell us how it went and how you feel when you are up for it????

I, too, took a nice bike ride yesterday. Filled up the tires and off I went???? My ass is also sore and my quads. But in a good way.... I needed it. I've got to work on 5 lbs off this month... I have faith it will go. It is just slow since I am close to goal. I just relaxed and drank at my youngest sons wedding last week. Worth every bit! This week is on spot!!!!

All the time and work was worth it! Fun and drinks and food. Oh my. Ok. Five lbs to get rid of Ps this is not the most flattering pic. But a friend had it. No professional photos yet. Loved how happy we are

Well... It's going on 8+ years and I am still learning to be MINDFUL when I eat. Slow down, put the fork down, take about 20 minutes to eat. I personally , was told to not drink with meals, so I am compliant, and wait about 1/2 hour after to have any liquid... Sounds like you are off to a nice start Best of luck and keep posting...

Canyon, I surely am hoping for good results for your husband. Please remember to take good care of yourself....truly.. Breathe deeply , drink lots of water and try to squeeze in anything that Moves your body. Especially women caregivers... We often put ourselves last... You need to be well to keep hubby comfortable no matter what level of care he is in???? Thinking positive thoughts for your family

Quinoa was very hard for me to digest. Too bad as it is so good for me. I found edamame Pasta which is tolerable in very small doses. Most pasta does not agree with me. Oh the changes we make to keep our hard won battles with weight!!

You are not alone in your restaurant "challenges". Even after many years, I got hungry and ate the beginning of my lunch too fast 2 days ago. Had to excuse myself twice. How embarrassing , but was w/ a friend.... I try to just have soup or fish if I am in a group. Like 52 said ... It is truly retraining our eating habits .....still making errors... Just few and far between Good luck and keep posting

I am 12 weeks out from TT and plication .I did not have drains, but the first week I needed meds. Getting up and down was difficult. I had friends come everyday and bring Soup or check on me. I also got a binder from the doc and used it faithfully for 10 weeks. Soooo happy with the results... Can't pinch a inch as the old saying goes . Please pm me if you have personal ? I had mons liposuctioned also. Thankfully. It was a great idea Good luck keep posting Also. Silicone scar strips work well. Off the internet. "New gel "

Debbie I think the haircut makes you look younger!!!! Just the kids teasing us we are old????

I truly appreciate the long term banders sharing info .... Even if we have very different experiences. I gleen a lot ideas and opinions here and I am thankful. Just passing 8 1/2 years this week and still thrilled with long term (KEY WORD) weight loss Thanks to all

kW. I had some work done .. TT / paniculy about 11 weeks ago. Have had a bit of experience also. I say go for it! Soo happy that 8 lbs. (yes eight) of belly fat is gone. Haven't seen my stomach this flat since high school ! Consultations can be free or deducted from surgery depending on office procedure. I felt like I was taking good care of myself for doing some tune up work each time. Sixty is easier than 50 for me. Good luck on your decisions. Many others have experience too on these boards.

Maybe add a high protein bar? I look go 20+ grams of protein for the least amount of calories. I like quest bars the best. Protein soup packets? Some jerky if tolerable? Cottage cheese? Hard boiled eggs? Chicken salad? Just throwing out a few things that have been good for me and some others. Good luck. There is some good info on this board . I do know about lapband and not with sleeve so sorry if this is not workable for you.

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Just an update. all was fabulous. The weather was spectacular.Mother son dance was sweet as can be

Thank you all. It is just so fast and fun!!! Rehearsal wedding. What a great time

Thanks for the support???? great pic sharpie!!! Flowers all morning. The bridesmaids are on to champagne Rehearsal this aft. Dinner at shadow brook which is super nice My son will be MARRIED TOMORROW!!!! Best thing to happen to me in a year!!!