Julie norton

Lucky. You get another chance to believe in partnership❤️. I'm trying to absorb all the caring you got and deserve. Congrats!! It is a bit hard only 5 months widowed, but I keep wanting to believe that things happen that make you happy down the road.

I think we are an eclectic fun group that are all in different phases of changes in our life

I now like lentils, split peas and garbanzo beans. Really didn't used to eat them much. Who knew our tastes would change?

Beautiful place boston. Lucky you! Happy you have a grandchild coming to visit. Healthy you can walk. Life is good right now!

I'm a dec 06 bander. One of the best decisions I ever made. Gave up the daily struggle with myself and food. Big difference in my life!

Love the info and support and weight loss chat on here. Not sure other people understand our way of life. It really helps me. Thanks for all suggestions!

I'm on the smooth move camp. Warm. Tasty and usually desired results..,.really worth a try in my opinion. Safeway had it here in California Health food stores too Good luck !

I'm one of the rare ones that rice agrees with. No pasta. Never agrees with me. Bread is rare. Toasted maybe once a month. Everyone is so different in their band and habits. It seems like some is trial and lots of errors! After lots of years I am fairly clear on what works with my antique band (2006). The best part I think is that weight does not come back!!! Heaven to not obsess about food calories... I think exercise and protein and water seem to be the most common stories I see on here. Good luck. It works if you do!

Well. Lots of us here clearly think banding was a good choice. It is such a personal decision. And you have to be willing to do the work it takes to exercise and monitor food. No other way has ever worked for me. I support whatever you choose if it makes you healthier and happier. That is what my band did for me personally. Best of luck and do tell the final decision.

I don't know if others have this issue but my band can be fine for a week and then get irritated and not let much in. I have to ease up and let it reset. And stress seems to cause some irritation. I had an issue with a relative and I was irritated( in many ways) but my band acted up. I don't get many fills after so many years but this band has a mind of its own sometimes. Bottom line. I have to let go.. It is driving this boat sometimes. Not me. Hard for a strong headed ( ok bitchy) woman

We are not alone. 12/06. Banders. Just fewer of us to chat. I will be here

May Please keep us posted. This banded life is so unusual to outsiders... I believe in what you call a starvation response. Never have I eaten around 1000-1200 calories a day forYEARS and how could I not be very slim? I'm happy and healthy and " normal size" but to most those calories are an extreme diet.... Not life daily as we know it as bandsters

These are great posts! I need to read them time and time again We are the marathon people ( never used that phrase for me before). Here day and month and years later. Not perfect but healthy and happy and pleased with myself and weight almost everyday. I shall try to avoid negativity in posts....they don't help my day. These do ....so thanks!

After almost 8 years there seems to be a balance of protein intake. I also like premier protein drinks. My band doesn't allow much in the morning and a drink helps. Often a protein bar in my purse gets me through a few more hours. In a perfect world I would have solid food in the am. But this band says no. And I listen for once in my life. So far so good!

Yes. Lunar eclipse tonite. In California at 3ish I think. Too foggy for the coast to see. 100 * just 2 days ago I really like this thread and Lisa I like the first mate costume! No candy or ice cream in this house. It sings like a siren and I weakly answer.

I agree with quick weight gain if non compliant. And I fills seem to go with just a bit more food than usual.But I'm in the camp that doesn't weigh themselves too much. Much of my adult life the scale has not been my friend. It truly affects my mood for the day. I can tell by clothing and other ways if I'm on track and fine. I do weigh in at my Drs. appt and sometimes at friends houses but do not keep a scale in the house.

Jean Join us! Tell us a story about your journey. We are pretty harmless women who seem to be thankful for the change in our lives!

Thanks for replying Today is better. I tried tums and one other. Hard yesterday to keep anything down. Coffee is ok this am I need to remember to be gentle and eat light when I feel pressure. You would think I might know a bit after almost 8 years but I'm still learning Glad to have my band. Even if not cooperative once in a good while Good luck to you!

Wow. Being irritated with the band and me. Popcorn last night. Mistake apparently. Usually fine. All day since I woke up...slimes...not even protein shakes staying down for 3/4 day. Finally water cleared but c'mon. 6 pm. Coffee? No go...liquid protein drink? No. Nothing finally at 6:30 pm a few nibbles of a protein bar(quest..thanks for the tip you guys) does anyone else have awful days like this? I haven't had this bad of an incident in years. Really asking if others do?

Welcome This is a funny quirky group and I learn a lot here

Wow. Congrats at 12 years. It is hard to believe how fast hunger and weight can return when unfilled I hope you can get a fill soon. I am at almost 8 years. Staying the same weight. But some days the band will not tolerate much of anything... That is ok due to having not much hunger most days. Protein drink. Sigh. Frustrating other times when I just want a simple salad or chicken breast. And it says no way. I was almost emptied once when it got super irritated. And boy. It IS different. Took a while before I was able to fill. Gained 13 lbs. but you will persevere. Things will go back to how they have been for years I hope Keep posting and let us know

I find there was lots if free time when I didn't want to plan, shop, prepare, eat and clear up FOOD. So I do see I use my iPhone more. ( like this app) And talk on the phone more. And.... sigh... work out 3 x a week and work part time. That is enough to occupy me for now ... Years post op

I also find that I cannot drink 2-3 drinks over an hour anymore. Like when I am out for dinner with friends. One is about all. Dang it! It does affect me more though so I am economical sigh

It is the KEEPING weight off (within reason ). That I adore. Next year I'll still be close to this size. Happy

Gosh that is a common theme. First food of the day. Yes or no today band? I so agree about waiting too long to eat. Once my band gets irritated,I have to drink protein drinks sometimes .Just like Betty said and spoky gurl ......same food different day. Not sure if my band will be happy that day or not. BUT. I will! Food will wait a day. Never thought I would say that Amazing how much time NOT planning. Shopping. Preparing. Eating. Clean up. FOOD. HURRAH