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Awww Florinda! I love that story! Thanks for sharing!!!

SherylJane - you mentioned that you are sort of continuously losing atm, and feeling less robust, and not exercising. I think your answer is there, in the not exercising. As I educated myself on lifting (y'all know how much I love my lifting!) I learned many things, one of which is that you can either eat less and not lift, or eat more and lift. The point being, that 90% of weight loss happens in the kitchen, not the gym. So, if you aren't working out, and you are eating skimpy, and are now of a normal body composition, it is not surprising that you are getting weaker.
I know that you, like myself, are battling bursitis brought on by improper training, how is yours healing? it has been over 2 months and I'm still in pain.
To Everyone, it sounds like we could all use a dose of fairytale, so I will tell you all about Jack and how we met...
I have used the dating website OK Cupid for a few years now, in fact with one exception, every single date I have been on in the last 2.5 years has been a result of OKC. In mid-February I changed locations in AFG and at first things went really really well and I was experiencing some wonderful revelations about my Self, in every way, plus my eating and fitness were really good and I had taken off all of the regain and hitting new lows so, I was in a very good head space. So, I went to OKC and rewrote my profile, I was finally ready to "come out of the closet" regarding my intelligence, my worldliness, my income. I rewrote the profile in the most genuine voice I had ever used, and I think the very next day, Jack approached me. Via the mechanisms of OKC I think I had seen him and read his profile and given him 5 stars so I received a notice saying that we liked each other, meaning that he had read my profile and given me a high rating as well. It was after that that he wrote to me. I wish I could remember what he said, or that I had saved the message, but I can't. What I can say is that even though I saw his profile pic, I read his entire profile before looking at the rest of the photos and loved everything he had to say for himself and didn't bother looking at the pics for a long time because it didn't matter!
He is so caring, so loving, so sweet ... he giggles and blushes and is so expressive, opinionated like I am, vulnerable with me, considerate... he also has sweet sweet warm brown eyes, unruly dark chocolate curls, long legs and a cute little butt
We started out by exchanging emails within the OKC messaging service, then it went to immediate OKC messages, then live chatting, then Skyping with video, we were both so nervous about that first session, to actually see each other, live, in real time! It was wonderful though and we quickly got over our nerves. At that point I was in Germany and preparing to be sent to the States, my plan was to come here to San Diego and stay with my friend for about 6 weeks, during which time I would have all the testing etc that I needed to get done that would be much more difficult up in the rural north. By now, we were so into each other that the idea of going 2 months without actually being with each other was unbearable, and he bought a ticket. He came down to SD on the 28th of April and stayed for a week and it was wonderful. It was, just right, even when we disagreed or had a miscommunication, we worked it out. Our photos we posted to Facebook no doubt made some people gag, they are so lovebirdy ;P but we don't care .
He went to all of my Drs appts with me and loves me regardless. A life together just feels so natural, we talk about children, about life and the future, we have both experienced trauma and have learned coping skills and communication skills as a result. He has also undergone massive weight loss though not via surgery, he has lost over 50lbs. He is a part of my life now and a day without seeing each other's faces literally makes us ill .

Oh and Coops...googled the Stella comedy...just listened for a few minutes, OMG I need a translation dictionary ...haha! Love the accents! I love all the quirky differences in language.

I feel the same way. Let's keep our group the way it is. Denise said not too long ago she didn't want to add anymore. I'm ok being selfish with this decision!

I'm with you, Kim! I do good to read through and respond to 5/2. I don't want our dynamic to change. Boy, that sounds kinda selfish, doesn't it?
But I LIKE this group of compadres and feel like we have "each other's back!" I don't think I could invest this much in another group.

I'm in the house! Surrounded by boxes but it is going to be good.
Florinda good to hear from you, we have all been worried by your silence.
I have not weighed for 2 weeks now and am worried, clothes feel a bit tight. I don't know which box the scales are in, I think I need to get back on program and get some fast days in. New house, new start and new me!

Just had an interesting convo with the hubby... he too is having 'problems' with the scale... it is saying that he has put on 6lbs in a few days! Even though is jeans are looser... hmmm! He also had to weigh my son.. for his boxing... and H has put on weight too! Even though he clearly hasn't! - H needs to keep a check on his weight cos of his boxing matches.
Looks like it might not be 'me' after all!
So, on his instructions I am ordering a new set of scales - these are 4 years old and they have had a lot of hammer!

Loving that idea Cathy - two Mother's Days! lol... I can just see there faces! My son would probably say something like 'How about NO!?!' lol!
Busy week for you next week but all good - hoping the move is swift and relatively pain free! Keep us posted! x

Just as a side note, I'd thought I would share this... I have thrown out all my 'fat pants'! My underwear draw is now fully of pretty knickers, some even with lace on! I even have two, yes you read that right, two sets of bra and knickers!
There you go ladies, I've said it...lol! x

Yes, I am looking forward to hearing about the book too - funny, I just re read the original to see if I was 'doing it wrong' - not lost a pound in 6mths!Dec I reached my all time low and I can't get down there again...top of my bounce again now, even after being super dooper... this is getting old! I hate these long stalls... I don't mind slow loss... but the stall is doing my head in again!
Sheila, good to hear from you... with my eating and your work outs we have it sussed...lol... chin up my lovely. Let's hope the funk, funks off soon for you... it is an awful feeling.
Dee... do vent away! I also get what you mean by the 'thin suit' - I quite like not being recognise by certain peeps! It is a pity you couldn't do a pit stop over Wales... I would buy you a coffee... skinny of course!
Keep us up to date on you!
Hope everyone else is ok... we gotta keep going girls, the only way is forward! x

Oh Wanda, please do tell us what you think of the book!
Dee, I'm sorry you are struggling...me too. I just can't seem to get out of this funk I've been in...the funk where I just don't give a flying f*ck about what I'm eating. My weight is up, I can tell in my clothing as well as on the scale and I just don't know how to turn it around. So sending you hugs because I totally feel you sister...
Denise, I saw this and thought of your situation:
http://newyork.cbslocal.com/2014/05/07/seen-at-11-positive-pregnancy-tests-up-for-sale-online/
Coops, SOOOOOOOOO glad you had a good night out and NO hangover...that's awesome. So happy for you! No coffee? Or Tea? OMG I would just probably have a miserable day without my morning cup of coffee...you are amazing my friend!
Sheryl, I'm concerned because YOU are concerned. The lack of any sort of hunger, forcing yourself to eat, and just that general feeling that something is "off"...when is the last time you had labs done? Might be time to pull them (even if you had them done within the last 6 months) they might have a clue into what is going on.
Sarah, glad your hubby has pulled through and hopefully recovery is going well.
As for me, I just am not sure how to shake my funk...I've still been working out and already spent 4 solid hours at the gym this week came home just dripping with sweat (literally my hair looks like I've been swimming when I come out of spin class for an hour) and having a puppy means almost daily walks. So the exercise front is doing well, it's just the eating...I really could care less and I don't feel like tracking my food or fasting. And it's been a while that I've been feeling like this and not sure what to do about it. Any suggestions?

Hi Ladies. I am sure u have heard but the authors of 5:2 have put out a new book, the Fast Beach diet. Its a 6 week fasting Boot Camp. I suspect its the south beach diet on your noon fastin days. The book is 4.95 on Amazon.as much as I hate the term diet it is what we do. I'm gonna buy the book and let u know
To All the mother's enjoy your weekend! I hope you all get pampered and appreciated this weekend. Mother's day is one of the greeting card days I like.

Interesting observations Sheryl - thanks for sharing them. If I am ever at goal or drop below it (wow what a concept lol) I think I would be so incredulous that just getting there will take ages to sink in. Still working on it and will be forever.
Speaking of sleeve sizes, my doc tends to use the larger bougie sizes - as the complications are much less in his experience. I know mine is a 40 - which is large compared to lots of folks on the boards. In reality if you have ever looked at the photos that compare the sizes next to one another - it doesn't seem like that much of a difference. My weight has settled right where my provider predicted it would - for me to get to goal I need to kick it in gear. My larger sleeve is not the culprit - creeping carbs, over the top work stress, lack of hydration and exercise are
I meet with my provider tomorrow for my two year follow up - looked at my bloodwork online and it looks good - ferritin and Iron look a bit low - so we will see what he says. I was in the hospital a week after surgery with internal bleeding, and ended up with multiple blood transfusions because my red blood cells (HCT - hematocrit) basically dropped to almost nothing.
Maybe I will need to eat more steak haha

142 this morning. I am quite sure my tummy troubles are acid since it feels better after starting up a ppi. What a shocker, I hope this doesn't mean serious trouble is heading my way ala Susan and Irene
Steven was wowed - he noticed the weight loss and was the one that told me I am officially a skinny girl and to stop losing weight right now... perfect. I trust his judgment and it feels perfect to me too.

Defo no local support group. Need you all! Sitting in airport lounge feeling alone.

Well, finally managed to get in a good solid fast day yesterday after a couple weeks or so off track. I'm within 2 pounds of high bounce so all is good. Having gotten the "sugar" fix somewhat under control Im feeling better about myself. Ha!
 
Whoever said sleep is restorative is a crock! LOL. I was extremely tired after going back to work after being off for about 9 days. Full day of dealing with STUFF. went to rest lying on my bed watching a little tv and went sound to sleep at 6:45!!!!!! Didn't get up til 6:20 am! I still feel tired! LOL.
 
Have a good day, my Sisters!!!!

I haven't been able to post because I've been having computer problems.
 
This whole issue with Dr. A has me concerned. I am the one who talked Irene out of going to Cirangle who is supposed to be a fabulous surgeon in CA.  She wanted to save the difference in the cost for her up coming PS. I sent her a PM and I hope she answers it, regarding whether she believes her acid problems are the fault of Dr. Aceves.
 
I know other people who have had horrible acid issues since becoming sleeved. I am glad I had mine checked when I went back to Mexicali for my face lift. Dr. Campos did a scope and said it looked perfect after 2 years.
 
I would love to comment on everyone's posts. I go out every tues night with my friends, so it's now after 3 am.  I am glad to hear from those of you who haven't posted in awhile. Hopefully, tomorrow, I will have some time to bring up 2 windows so I can look at all the posts to respond to everyone.
 
I gained around 5 lbs on my vacation, and I don't seem to have the willpower to fast or do anything to take it off. It scares me. I did make it to the gym today, so I think my dedication to staying at goal will come back after I get rid of some carb cravings. I hope so anyway!
 
Have a great Wed. everyone! I love our group!

My center has one every month...I went once early on... mostly RNY, but may be different now... I actually keep putting it on my calendar, then not going. I certainly would not want to host one... too much on my plate now... but really enjoy and get lots of value from hooking up with you guys! I don't really know anyone here who has had the sleeve... Diva is from my town, but have only meet up with her once in person. If I wanted to, I guess I would probably be out there more.

I did it... no tea or coffee in work! yey me... just gotta get through tonight now! I. Can. Do. This!

Lots of happiness from me! We have walked on the beach each day with the dog. We have an early start tomorrow as I'm working a 1-9 and must get back into the right county before then.
Sue so glad you had a good night out and that the 'diet' is out of the vocab for today - tomorrow is soon enough, like me you are back to work tomorrow and it won't be too long until we get the 5:2 back in to our routine.
Sarah, glad to hear that hubby is well, are you taking care of yourself too?
I love this site and especially all you lovely people who give so much support.

G'Day all, fasting today.... making up for extra lovely eating this last few days... Well /REALLY try and fast on ths as well...twice a week for a change! I hear some happiness here... LOVE THAT! 

Oh girls! I had such a blast... just as predicted... laughter, cider and dancing! Such fun. Really lifted my spirits too! Totally ignored any sort of 'diet ideas' lol! Today I woke, fresh faced with no hangover...lol! Lucky girl, right there. I've been really hungry today though, and I've enjoyed a day of nibbling on whatever I fancied, which is unlike me!
So, fasting tomo! I'm gonna try to kick the teas and coffees on my fast days to see of that helps move the scale a bit?

Forgot to add Sue, hope you has fun on your night out! You just look like a fun person from your pics.
Wish we could all meet up somewhere, some day...

Georgia we haven't heard from Florida since she was sent to Germany . Waiting to get an update from her.
All I have left of my boobs is loose skin. Seriously I pull the skin up and make a boob out of it and it doesn't even fill my size A cup! I even buy those really padded bras. Maybe some day I'll get those done but the lower body life and tummy must come first.
Kim, love you! Love reading your posts!
Brown I feel the same way about you. I read what you write and it makes me smile .
Sheila good to hear from you!

Thanks all...hubs is doing well so far. If he can tolerate liquids tomorrow and pass his leak test tomorrow he my even be able to come home sooner than expected.