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Gayle

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  1. I am having the same problem with my Fiance. He is being so stubborn. He thinks I won't succeed and that I never tried hard enough. He is upset that I made this decision for myself and by myself, he thinks he should have a say in it. I understand that we are in a partnership here and should make decisions together, but this is my body and my health and I think it really is my decision to make. So I was very frank with him. I told him that this was something I had to do for myself and that I'm sorry that he doesn't agree with it, but I promised that it would make our lives better and he would be so much happier when it's done. I told him that I really needed his support on this. He decided to back down and just support me. I think you need to just be honest with your wife and tell her you need her support and will be sad, but okay if you don't have it.


  2. You know, my fiance isn't super supportive of it either. But what I told him was that I appreciate his concern, but that it is my life and this is something I have to do for myself.

    Now, a sister should have even less say in it than a fiance! Tell her that you know she thinks it's a bad idea, but this is something you want to do for yourself and she needs to BUTT OUT!


  3. I am having my first consultation with my surgeon (Dr. Valentine) on Monday (which is Valentine's day, how funny is that?).

    I scheduled my visit with the psychologist but it's a whole month away that they could see me!

    I am really hoping to have my surgery in the middle of April, because I have a pretty hectic school schedule. I guess we will just see!

    Did anybody have that psychological evaluation? What goes on during those appointments?

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