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My doctor went into an urgent care office so I needed a new PCP I started my first month today. He seemed almost irritated that I was needing him just to sign off once a month. I showed him my paperwork and he said that was fine but we would only actually see me every other month, the other months a nurse would take my numbers. Is that ok? Do i just need his signature or what? I am kinda confused:huh2:, i thought the dr would know what to do?? What has your experience been? What did you go over every month?

You said you were getting ready to go to a seminar. i would offer if he wants to come. I have found a lot of people say that the men were against it until they finally found out what it really was all about. If he doesn't don't push but just know that you will have to work at it just as you have to work at a marriage before band. . . just another screw thrown in. Also as you lose weight my (required for my band)therapist said that I should be very open minded to therapy if we come upon issues because she said while losing the weight a lot of new things will come up from childhood, re-defining yourself and ect. If you are religious I recommend a book called Love and respect by Eggesrich. It is based from the words of the bible and explains sooo simply how we are different and basically how to do things so that you get what you want as well as him. I am so much more relaxed in my marriage and enjoy our differences now. Good Luck!!

Lots in insurance companies cover it BUT the problem is the company that you work for has an elective packet. they can choose. So it isn't based on insurance, it is if the company has elected it as a benefit. Good Luck.

Welcome!! They had a survey on here somewhere and actually most people would gain weight on purpose to hit the 40 bmi. I was surprised but i am way over that so I haven't had that issue. You definitely need a different doctor!! Mine have never been anything less than supportive. He did want me to try on my own again just because I am young and I failed so he has given me the go ahead.. . They should never say anything rude! :thumbup:

Maybe you could try egg beaters. . . I personally love them especially the southwest. Easy to make in the morning.

I am going through KU and wondered if anyone else had any experience with them?? negative or positive?

Kansas University only uses lap band and they are a center for distinction. The new lap band has sections so it is like little pillows on the inside that grips better and less chance of slippage.

Ok, Thanks!! I wasn't sure if it would make a difference in the outcome. Thanks! Guess i am off to buy some new work out dvds

Okay I am still 6 months out from surgery but saw the nutritionist and psychologist already. The psychologist was easy but said that since I knew what changes needed to be made when I became banded I should start practicing them now. I know I can diet and lose weight especially going to weigh in at the drs the first 3-4 months I will lose then gain it back slowly. My question is should I make all those drastic changes and start losing weight or if I lose a certain amount will insurance say, "hey she is fine on her own." I know %100 I can't do it on my own as a forever solution. I need a little help, I need the band to lose and keep it off. (Btw I weigh 360 and am 5'7'')

They pretty much spell out the basics. I didn't ask anything but I definitely ask questions here. I find this place much easier to get answers because they have been through it!

I am back and with I think good results!! They psychologist was a young woman and it was basically her going over all the questions that were already on paper. She told me since I knew what I needed to change after surgery to start practicing now to get used to making meals separate from hubby in the beginning, start walking, measuring food and so on. . I guess now I just need my two support group meetings, finish my 6 months, and consult by surgeon. :frown:

:frown: I have my Psych appointment tomorrow bright and early I will report back here during the children's nap time!! Wish me luck!!

My insurance does everything through a center of distinction. I went there for a seminar and found everything I needed. Good Luck

Would love to get a copy also!! Thanks guys!! Masters_nichole@yahoo.com

I am assuming you are on the pureed foods?? My nutritionist suggested some tuna, little mayo and whatever you prefer, relish, or whatever then blend it smooth. Also try a different Protein drink because the ones i have tried weren't. Maybe try SF carnation I heard those were the best. Good Luck!!

Thanks! I am just worried something I say or do will be misunderstood it seems like a 1 hr appointment and some BROAD questions are not enough to know me. I am just a nervous wreck about this appointment. . . everything else is simple.

I have my psych evaluation this coming friday and after looking through all the questions I am really nervous. I marked a few about sleeping through the night because I don't and I know this may be TMI but it isn't because I cant sleep I just always wake up at least twice to pee. . . Do i need to note this on the quiz?? I just don't wanna go white out my answers and be obvious lol. I don't want to do a sleep study to find out i pee alot :thumbup:

Okay, sounds like I shouldn't even worry at all . . THANKS!

I am a very far 6 months out pre op BUT I have sen a lot of people here who have had band erosion or their reasons to have the band removed and then be re-banded? Did insurance cover the re-banding? How did the process go? Whatever info you can share would be great i am just trying to be as educated about the entire thing as possible. Thanks!!:thumbup:

My nutritionist recommended 70-100 gr of protein so ayeb you could boost your protein, watch fat and carbs. . .

KU is a little more extensive than most i think. I have a 2 week pre op diet, then after surgery its 4 weeks liquid, 3 weeks pureed, 2-3 weeks soft foods, then regular food. . I also hear on here a lot of food amounts that are more than my hospital recommends. I am only to eat 3/4 cup 3 times a day when I get to my regular food. I have seen some eat 1 1/2 or 2 cups. I think it is different for everyone. i am choosing to TRY to follow my Dr.'s direction to the T as I trust the hospital and surgeon. My surgeon also does the surgery by only making one hole in the belly button which is different. (Only 5 surgeons in the US can do that)

How can you not share something that is life altering with your husband? I am not judging but you should definitely be open and honest with everything in a marriage.

THANK YOU!!!!!! Thanks to all the people who shared their story because I have yet to get the and and honestly when I first read this it freaked me out a little. I am excited and educating myself on every aspect and I know what PB means and slime. I can only imagine having it happen a couple times before you know better. . . I think this site/forum is very helpful and inspiring.

I am having mine done in June 11 but I have a person i work with who had lap band and she lost 60 lbs and then slowly gained 40 back. She doesn't go in for fills or follow the rule of protein first then veggie. I have actually seen her pick things purposely to break up and go through the opening. I think if you are not mentally ready this will not work! You have to be able to have a grasp on your emotional eating issues. I have also seen statistics saying 45% of bandsters are not successful. . .