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To my fat,

Dear Fat,

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It seems like just yesterday we began to head our separate ways even though it has now been 2 months and 1 week. I hope you have found a new purpose in life other than weighing me down, because I wish you the best. I wouldn't be where I am today, who I am today without the challenges I faced with you in my life. And I am gratefeul. But I am also happy to find myself moving on. I lose a little more of you tat was a part of me every day, and, frankly, I am feeling much better. At first, it was very hard. I was very sad and at times I regretted making the decision for our separation, but now I know that this was best for the both of us. I had to learn to do things differently; I don't think you would even recognize me now. I have given up many of the thngs we would enjoy together that helped both of us grow...figuratively and literally...but I have found new joy in new activities. Eating was lonely at first, but now I recognize food as a fuel rather than an opportunity for us to grow closer. I have replaced donuts and ice cream and lazy days on the couch with salad and chicken and bike rides. I have rediscovered that my family loves me just as muc as you did. So you can be rest assured I am doing well. I will be shopping for clothes soon...without you... and now I know it will be great! So this is goodbye--for the last time.

Yours no more,

Amanda

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Sleevie WonderLand

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OMG, I have to rewrite this letter to my fat once I'm sleeved. This was so on point, I'm smiling and crying at the same time! A dear john letter to my fat. I LOVE this!

Ms. E

LAP-BAND Patients

I love it!!! I feel the same way.

Angelsgirl

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Awesome!

happylady

Gastric Sleeve Patients

Touches a cord for sure! Healing.

amandaRN

LAP-BAND Patients

Yes, I am healing. I am healed more and more every day, and it is in no small part to VST and the wonderful supportive people here.

AnewMe@28

LAP-BAND Patients

Ok I love this entry. I must say I felt you on everything that you said. I think we all should write a letter like this. It is a end/goodbye to a long long long relationship for most of us. And with any goodbye we must have closure. I think your letter has provided that.

You have encouraged me today. Thank you.

Lehg520

Gastric Sleeve Patients

Love it! Can't wait to be able to write my own.

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