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Weght Loss, Dating, and my Attitude..lol

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It's so funny how when people see me now they say, "Wow Gabz, you look great! I know you have a boyfriend?!?!" My reply is "Nope!" LOL! My body had changed tremendously, but not my ideals on love and relationships. I am still the same ole' Gabz. Hopefully Romantic. I've always been focused on music, art, spirituality, and family. Not so much have I been fixed on men, even though I do love a gorgeous smile with demples...and a 6 pk here and there (great abs good to look at, not so nice to lay against). I guess what I am saying is that people reaction to my weight loss was a little shocking. Almost like okay so now I'm smaller, I can get a man now, I can get married now. Well, I could have done that before. I had plenty of gentlemen callers (hahahaha) before my weightloss, plenty in which thought the procedure was not needed. Losing weight to get people to like you...BAD IDEA! Losing weight to improve your health, prolong your life, and fit back into your favorite size 10 jeans...GREAAT IDEA! I love to tell people that more has changed for me than my bra size (40 DD - 36 D). I'm happy with myself. I'm happy with where God had led me. It's not b/c I'm smaller, it b/c I feel like I took complete control. I feel like I took the initiative to turn it alllll around. So fellas, I still believe in getting to know someone inside out. I'm still Gabby and I still get a kick out of busting balls! MUAH! :001_tt2:

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I love your attitude! I am constantly asked/told how happy my husband must be with the "new" me. Umm...I never know quite how to respond especially when they phrase it as a question. You seem to be doing well both physically and mentally. I wish you continued success!

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Thanks DeeDee,

I wish you the same!

Side Note: As if hubby wasn't happy before...just smile and say thank you...i think they're trying to compliment you...lol!

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