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Tomorrow is my surgery and I am so so so excited, so glad to start on this journey- to get to the other side of the bridge and start the uphill climb.

I just wish that my dh was even slightly supportive. I feel very alone in this (minus all of you here on lbt!)

If I even mention anything about my surgery, he shuts down. Like somebody flipped his power switch.

Last night he blew up about the smallest thing (unrelated to surgery) and left the house for like 4 hours!

I slept in the living room as my silent protest.

as of right now its been like 16 hrs we haven't spoken over a stupid fuckin quarrell.

And here I am 23 1/2 hrs away from surgery and not speaking to my husband (he hasn't even tried to talk to me)

He refused to drive me to my appointment so my sister is. I'm going into mexico by myself and he hasn't the slightest concern (my friends bought me pepper spray lol)

I just don't know...I don't even know how I'm getting home- I'm just trusting in my ability to figure shit out.

I wonder if this will pass once the surgery is done and over....

Oh well, I am strong and will overcome these obstacles, just wish I had someone IRL that would be supportive.

I can't thank all of my friends here on LBT enough for all the encouragement and support, you guys have really helped me through this!

Well I am getting surgery on 6/26 in Mexico and I am here to tell you...I support you!!! Men don't get it./ Maybe you will be empowered by your experience and he won;t matter anymore...just a thought...I had to let go of the unhealthy....you go girl...stay in touch and let me know how it goes....crg2cng

I am really sorry at what happened between you and your DH. It leads me to believe that maybe he is scared of losing you and the changes that you will be making. How long have you been married? I am hoping that everything goes well despite this and you have a very healthy and uneventful surgery. Even though it will be hard due to the distance and not knowing anyone.. you will be okay because you are a strong determined woman who is making a life decision. Take care

Is your husband overweight? If so, he may be feeling insecure that you will lose a lot of weight and he won't. Also, he may be feeling insecure that you will lose a lot of weight, and look hotter than you already are :-) and then leave him! LOL!

My husband is overweight. He has been very supportive of me but does make comments like, "you're going to get skinny and then leave my fat ass!"

Hang in there and know you have all the support you need in this forum! Keep us posted!

having the same problem...but hes just a boyfriend...(a lot easier to get rid of) but i hope that he will wake up..and be a supportive and caring husband like he promised he would the day he said I Do....Good luck