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I am going to Atlantic city NJ in october with my parents and my best freind and we are going to go clubbing because we both love to dance. I am so scared to go into those big clubs and see all these skinny little girls wearing almost nothing. I feel like the fat girl in the club. I don't even know where to buy clothes to wear to the club. I am not looking to hook up with anyone i have a wonderful husband so i am not going to the club to find a man but i do want to find something nice to wear. I will be about a 16/18 or 1x when i go (i hope). Where can i find plus size clothes to wear to the club? Do you feel comfortable going to big clubs and not Intimidated by the skinny girls.

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I love to dance, I went to the 4040 in AC last weekend. I got my outfit from Torrid, if there isn't one near you go on the website and shipping is quick.....love that store or Full to Figure

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Torrid is awesome. But just remember its all about confidence! Fake your confidence if you need to until it becomes real - don't worry about the other girls - concentrate on your inner fierceness ;-)

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Torrid is awesome. But just remember its all about confidence! Fake your confidence if you need to until it becomes real - don't worry about the other girls - concentrate on your inner fierceness ;-)

This is awesome advice! I hope you have a great time!

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Girl, I always used to go out clubbing and bar hoping with friends...who are all size 0 and under it seems (no, this is not an over estimate)...in Dallas!(which is a very superficial city) A lot of times I used to feel huge next to them, but you get over it. Feel confident and dance your a$$ off and no one will care. Don't let size intimidate you.

Have fun!

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i go clubbing every weekend and i dance my big butt off (its shrinking now lol ) i have a ton of confidence i couldnt give 2 craps wat other people think and i go to have fun and for that alone so do not let anyone else stand in ur way of having a good time!!!

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I had the best time last Thursday night! I always loved dancing but now when people actually like my dance moves lol its great! I rarely go out bc I go to school full time and I am busy as hell! I really dont like the going out thing anymore either..BUT when I do I like to cut some rugs:lol:

Last Thurs. my boyfriends sister and I decided we were going out with the our other friend and we were going to the local bar/dance spot! We got cutely dressed I wore a pair of black shorts from wetseal and a shirt from ross! I swear I had the best time and at the end of the night my boyfriends sister and I were dancing on top of a table and having the best time of our lives! I dont really care what people think! I live in a small town and everybody knows everybody so I saw everyone I know and they were amazed on how good I looked (was 330 now I am 176:thumbup:)

Just get a cute outfit that you feel confident in and dance your ass off!!!!

I actually lost 2 pds the next day after we went out!

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I wanted to thank everyone for their advice. I leave next thursday and i am so excited. I found this awesome dress over the weekend at Deb's I didn't even know that they carried plus size club wear. I don't think that i have wore a dress since i went to prom like 10 years ago. I will post pictures after i get back. I am going to have fun and i don't care what other people think my friend said something that really make me think about my self. She said that you should never live for anyone else but yourself and it is all about how i feel. And if those skinny girls don't like it F*** them i will never see them again in my life anyway. She is so right

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