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*gasps* Randy! What would your kids say if they saw that?!

It's just odd to see a post like that from a guy called My Kids Dad LOL

And I thought Heather was the horndog. Are you from the same neck of the woods as her? Drinking the same Water??

I'm sorry Jill, but excuse me while I bust a gut laughing.....from this side of THIS fence that is exactly OPPOSITE of what goes on. I'm the one that is over-sexed. It's just that everyone is different...

My hubby could have posted this. Jill, your pattern absolutely does NOT hold true for me. Much to my husband's distress. :cry

*chuckle* well, it was a theroy ;) From my own personal observations.

As I said, I'm a student of sexuality. I pay a lot of attention to innane details that people wouldn't typically recognize. This is just something that - especially from this thread - caught my eye.

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I could take it or leave it..

I think

I once went almost 5 years without it.. by choice and had no desire to do it..

Now I go out maybe once a month and thats fine by me.

Susan, the son (25) would go :) . The daughter (23) would go :lalala: I mean, how do you think we managed two kids in the first place? LOL

Cynthia,

You don't need a partner for that...you should contact Lisa (DeLarla). Bzzz Bzzz Bzzz. She can introduce you to Bob.

Heather, you can borrow my husband...He never gets enough.

And regarding slumber parties....I LOVE MY TOYFRIENDs!

Well, dh and I have always had similar libidos. We both love it, but I have found that the better our relationship or the more amount of time we have for each other during the day, the better and more frequent the sex is. I do have friends with problems in their desire/frequency, but I've noticed almost without variation that it points to a problem in their relationship. When they begin to communicate better, relate better to the others' needs, become less selfish, etc., "magically" the sex gets better. I have a friend who's been married for close to 20 years and just recently she and her dh "turned over a new leaf" in their relationship -- he began to treat her as a gift and a blessing -- and he fully confessed to not doing so prior to that in their relationship, and she said the sex is better than it's ever been in her life.

I have also found in my personal circle of friends that if they had pre-marital sex, the carry-over guilt from that affects their physical relationship in marriage for years and years to come. That would not, I don't think, be the case for couples who don't believe pre-marital sex is wrong. I believe there is a spiritual component to this.

(phew) sorry for the novel!

it has been over a year for me!! Hubby moved out last Jan and it was 2 months before that.....I wonder if i want him back or just the incredble sex we had every day????

Ever notice that when you go a few days witout sex...things just keep getting in the way...then when everything is right, you are both hornier than you have ever been...and aunt flo comes to town.

just me?? ok...nevermind. :cool:

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