Ok so I'm getting banded on Tuesday and I am SCARED TO DEATH. I'm scared of the surgery, scared of the pain (big time), and scared of what happens after the surgery. I know it's just nerves, but it almost has me paralyzed. (figuratively speaking)

I have everything I need for home (and then some) and a totally awesome husband, family, and friends that are sooo supportive.

I have no idea why I'm so scared, but it's awful.

I have read everything of what to expect. My problem is that I feel like I am going to be the worst case scenario about every aspect of the band.

AAAHHHH!

Ok, just needed to vent!

Kris

Hey Kris, the vast majority of people do really, really well, and many are able to return to work or normal activies within days, not weeks, not months. Like Jessie likes to say, "what makes you think you're so special?"

Actually, I think we are all special... You will do fine. Honest!

Dont be afraid think positive. I am scheduled for surgery on April 20th. I am just believing all will be well with me. This is something we deserve! May you be Blessed.

It's hard to believe we've waited so long to make this change, and know were gonna be wearing those cute clothes in the "normal" sizes yet it is still scarry.

YOU"LL BE GREAT!! just keep picturing those thin thighs.

I've had 2 band surgeries (faulty tubing in the first band) and another major surgery...not saying this isn't serious. It is.

Postive thoughts going your way and Congratulations

Hey Kris,

We can so do this together, I'm on Tuesday aswell, about 12 hrs from now to be exact, even though we're from opposites ends of the earth, I wish you luck, I'm sh*t scared also but this would have to be the most positive thing I have ever done for myself! Keep in touch and let me know how your big day goes.

Tina

You would not be normal if you were not scared, nervous etc. It will be over soon, you will heal, and be on your way to a brand new lifestyle. My mother-in-law would always tell me "And this to shall pass" she is right. Go window shopping and look at cloths in the regular sizes today to give yourself something to do and look forward to. You will do good and be fine. I will say a little prayer for you.

Good luck on you surgery....I am sure you will be fine.....keep us posted...

God Bless you.

Kris - It is normal to feel all you are feeling. You will be fine, and it will be over before you know it. Good luck, and please post when you are able and let us know how your surgery went.

Hey! Lets all be nervous wrecks together! I get banded on Thurs and I'm having trouble sleeping. I'm sure this is the right decision for me so I'll hang in there as best I can. Good Luck to all!!!

Kris,

You will be just fine. I was scared too but I internalize mine and don't let anyone know how I really feel. Thanks to a great hubby I did just fine getting home and help around the house. I moved slowly the first 3 days and then all of the sudden I really started to feel like my normal self again. I'll make sure I send up a prayer for you.

Well, Kris, it's now Tuesday, and you're probably in the hospital as I write this. How are you? Welcome to Bandland! You'll get past the first few days, and should be feeling better by the weekend.