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Break-ups ?

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My boyfriend and I broke up over the weekend, and I just wanted to reach out to my bari-family for support ?

I remember reading loads about how after surgery lots of people found that their relationships broke down for one reason or another, and the statistics around this being quite shocking.

Whilst I don't contribute my break-up to my surgery/weight loss, I am struggling at the moment with the emotional side of things following it all. Rather than emotional eating, I am finding that I have 0 appetite at all, I just don't want to eat, I don't want to do my exercise, ugh. But I am also scared of just doing nothing.

I don't know guys, I am rambling, but either way , just wanted to reach out to see how others have dealt with this in their own lives. ❤️

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    @The Greater Fool Thank you for your response I agree that it can also apply to the relationship we have with ourselves - something I definitely need the time and space to figure out. I do

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How are things going now?

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5 hours ago, SleeveToBypass2023 said:

How are things going now?

Thank you for checking in! Things are really good actually! We've really worked through it and it feels secure ❤️

Oh honey, I am new here but I just want to say I'm so so sorry you're going through this. Breakups are brutal, and dealing with them post-surgery adds a whole other layer of complexity. Sending you the biggest virtual hug right now. ?

EDIT: oh I have just read that things are good for you now! That is so good to hear!

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