I had weight loss surgery about 2 years ago and I still struggle with things eating does anyone else have this problem and how do they overcome it?

Try a therapist experienced in working with bariatric patients.

Hopefully you already have but I agree seek out a therapist that specializes in eating disorders. They are sorta hard to find but one benefit of covid is the prevalence of telehealth nowadays so if you find someone anywhere in your state you can do telephone appointments with them. Good Luck ?