Since going through with this surgery my marriage has not been what I thought which is happy alot of arguments and mixed emotions

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Communication is key. We all hit bumps in the road. There could also be underlying issues before surgery that come to light after. There are many articles on the subject of relationships with oneself and others after bariatric surgery. I'll post a couple links. Hang in there.

https://www.obesityaction.org/community/article-library/relationship-challenges-before-and-after-weight-loss-surgery/

https://www.everydayhealth.com/diet-nutrition/bmi/getting-bariatric-surgery-unexpected-way-your-relationship-status-may-change/

Welcome to the issues of WLS - Tons of posts here on this same subject -

I agree as above -

People don't like major changes forced on them (at least not if it means inconvenience for them and/or threatens them) - seriously, I sometimes think husbands and wives expect too much from their spouses.