Ok, im 8 day's post op EVERYWHERE i turn somebody’s eating in my face. It seems like my parent only cooked once a week now it's like EVERYDAY. So Im trying not to visit as much, then i get the “ O since you lost 21 pounds you think you to good to visit” ( It’s only been 8 day’s) I jus do not understand !!! I no i really want to get the weight off an Im trying to be dedicated but the temptation are killing me, it's only been 8 day's if Im going through it now what’s gone happen in a week or two? :help:

Also why do everyone think when you loose a couple of pound that you think your “All that” or “ Better then them” IM STILL ME!! I haven’t even reached my goal yet why is people changing already?? :think

HELP ME !!!

Things will be easier once you start getting your fills. You won`t be as hungry then. Hang in there!! Donna

THats funny, saying everywhere u turn someone is eating,, everywhere i turn someone is giving me full on details of what they have cooked for dinner, my friend gave me a whole rundown of wats on her sons 21st buffet table, just what i need 8 days post op...:heh:

I no i no it's seem like everyone wants to cook, are share details of what they cooked im fed up!

From the land of casseroles and Jello..... enjoy yourself. I don't mind food...looking at it, anyways.

I love to smell it, look at all the different colors...Mmmm. Love food. But luckily I'm restricted so I just simply pass. Me at a buffet is funny. My lil 4 oz isn't worth the price!

If you don't have restriction yet...it must be trying to diet and not eat. For me, I didn't worry about dieting. I ate what I wanted, when I wanted...within reason.

If someone made a comment to me "you lost 20 pounds so you think you're too good to visit me"... I'd reply, yep...staying away from you has allowed me to lose the weight. Must be allergic to you"

If someone made a comment to me "you lost 20 pounds so you think you're too good to visit me"... I'd reply, yep...staying away from you has allowed me to lose the weight. Must be allergic to you"

Thank for the quote im going to use that for sure!!

Thank for the quote im going to use that for sure!!

Just let them know that the temptation is hard for you to pass up, yet it will make you sick if you don't.

Why are people so rude?

Good for you that you got it done and are getting healthy!

I never found that out.. Why are people so rude?? i guess ill never no.

everyone is just jealous that you have taken steps to do something for yourself. You go girl.!!!! I haven't had it done yet but I can see the same reaction coming from my family. they like to look down on me and they won't be able to afterwards.jenn

Yea thats what it is jealousy now they cant tell me how being over weight is bad for my health

It seems like my parent only cooked once a week now it's like EVERYDAY. So Im trying not to visit as much, then i get the “ O since you lost 21 pounds you think you to good to visit” ( It’s only been 8 day’s)

To me it sounds like jealousy but not for the reason you'd think. Seems to me that the parent is lashing out cause suddenly your avoiding him/her because of your surgery, which is true. Can you maybe talk to them and explain that the constant talk/showing of food is bothersome to you right now, explain you cant have it yet and its really hard staying on you diet. Or ask them to find other things to talk about? Or restrain from eating while your there. Heck if your only 8 days out you can always say that getting out is still a bit tiring and just call instead of visiting.