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I've been waiting a year to get to a surgery date for my RNY. I'm proud to say I have gone from 297lbs to 252lbs on my own, over the past year and finally have a surgery date. I'm 13 day says away from surgery and currently doing my liver shrinking (liquid) diet. I've had so many people try and discourage me but, they don't realize the health issues that the weight has caused me. Hopefully this will be a good place of support and positive vibes.

Thanks for listening (well technically for reading lol)

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Can't wait to hear your story after surgery. You will do great. Good luck on surgery. If you need motivation afterwards please don't hesitate

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Thank you so much! You look great...you are doing an awesome job so far! I truly appreciate the motivation!!!

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Anytime. Be prepared for some life changes. But in your favor. Not sure if you're religious or not. But if so stay prayed up. Find something positive to stay motivated even if it's a will to live healthy and stay alive.😇😇😇

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Seems like you are well prepared and oh so ready for this surgery! Good luck and I can’t wait to read your update

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Seems like you are well prepared and oh so ready for this surgery! Good luck and I can’t wait to read your update
Thank you so much! Yes I am super prepared and extra ready!!! I've waited too long to take control of my weight but, luckily I actually did decide to take control for good!
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Good luck! Congrats!

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Good luck! Congrats!
Thank you!!!
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Awesome job losing almost 50 lbs. already! You're doing great! My surgery is on June 25th. Sounds like we're in the same week. :)

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Awesome job losing almost 50 lbs. already! You're doing great! My surgery is on June 25th. Sounds like we're in the same week. [emoji4]
Thank you! It's definitely been trying but, I refuse to give up on myself. My surgery is the 25th too, we're twins! [emoji847]
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12 minutes ago, AlteredReality said:
1 hour ago, Little Kansas Kitty said:
Awesome job losing almost 50 lbs. already! You're doing great! My surgery is on June 25th. Sounds like we're in the same week.

Thank you! It's definitely been trying but, I refuse to give up on myself. My surgery is the 25th too, we're twins!

YAY! You're a great inspiration. Glad to be able to go through this with you. Feel free to jump on over to June RNY Buddies. If I remember correctly, there are a couple others on there scheduled for June 25th as well. :)

https://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/415630-june-rny-buddies/

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Never ever give upon yourself, you are your own best advocate, only you can sing your song for no one else knows the words. Even when,it seems the 🌎is against you, hold solid to you! You are,the best and hands above average!👼
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YAY! You're a great inspiration. Glad to be able to go through this with you. Feel free to jump on over to June RNY Buddies. If I remember correctly, there are a couple others on there scheduled for June 25th as well. [emoji4]
https://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/415630-june-rny-buddies/
Thanks you. I will be sure to check it out!

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Never ever give upon yourself, you are your own best advocate, only you can sing your song for no one else knows the words. Even when,it seems the [emoji289]is against you, hold solid to you! You are,the best and hands above average![emoji72]
Thank you for the words of encouragement. I appreciate that

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