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Ok. I love my hubs so much but dang it he is giving me fits over dressing up on the cruise.....come on what's the matter with looking nice a few times. This is one vacation where I get to be pampered - we usually do a timeshare where I still cook 3x/day, and have all that that goes with it, I want to doll up and get waited on, some elegance.

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I don't understand. He's upset that you want to dress nice? I'm lost...

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I love cruises and have been on at least a dozen. I don't know what it is about people and the elegant night. You'd be surprised how many people are so put off by the idea. (I think that it has more to do with it being a mandatory dress code for the dining room rather than the dressing up itself.)

Even when I was heavy, I still liked dressing up. It is a nice change of pace. I'd say dress up and look like a million bucks no matter what he wants to wear.

Have fun! I need to get back on a cruise soon, myself...

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LOL how annoying! My boyfriend got mad at me on Sunday for putting on makeup and wanting to look nice to go to lunch. He wants me to look like crap because it's quicker lol I enjoy getting dolled up. Men! lol @Sosewsue61

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He did go get a much needed haircut, lol. And I kept telling him - in the main dining room - no jeans (buffet ok, bf you can wear Docker shorts, etc - but he had his man ears on when I told him all this 5 times). The thing is we are also square dancing and at regular dances he dresses for that....it's too funny....

I am sooooo excited we fly tomorrow morning. I have so many new clothes, a lovely dress with lace, new shoes, etc etc. I got my hair highlighted and a crazy glitter pedicure!!!!🛳🏝🏖🌞🎉

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1 hour ago, Sosewsue61 said:

He did go get a much needed haircut, lol. And I kept telling him - in the main dining room - no jeans (buffet ok, bf you can wear Docker shorts, etc - but he had his man ears on when I told him all this 5 times). The thing is we are also square dancing and at regular dances he dresses for that....it's too funny....

I am sooooo excited we fly tomorrow morning. I have so many new clothes, a lovely dress with lace, new shoes, etc etc. I got my hair highlighted and a crazy glitter pedicure!!!!🛳🏝🏖🌞🎉

Have a wonderful time!

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