I'm just curious & don't mean to sound selfish but I don't have any kids and all my friends kept telling me that I should have had a kid before I had bypass (04/03) but I didn't & I felt that I'm not ready for kid(s) I'm 27 & still it's like I kind of question should I have had kids or a child before getting the surgery... because of future weight gain when I decide too in which it's not on my mind the way the economy is and I'm still trying to reach other goals then weight lost but I guess I'm saying I don't want the weight gain but then again having a child or kids is not my concern either but did I do it wrong?

If u feel ur not ready for kids then no matter what anyone say u have to do what's best for u. Are these friends gettin pregnant n carrying n caring as well as payin for this baby THEY want u to have. U live ur life for u and only u never mind what someone else want for ur life.

Sounds like your friends are pushing and being judgmental about a major life decision.

ONLY YOU know when your ready and tbh, weight loss may help increase fertility so tell them to shove it in a pipe and smoke it. [emoji16]

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Sounds like your friends are pushing and being judgmental about a major life decision.

ONLY YOU know when your ready and tbh, weight loss may help increase fertility so tell them to shove it in a pipe and smoke it. [emoji16]

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