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I'm calling BS

So, I've read posts where people said they had sex at a couple days post op. One post I read said they did it while patient was still in the hospital.

I have a very healthy (or maybe even so high it's unhealthy) sexual appetite. I could go at it all day most every day.

Today is day 4 post op, and while the idea of certain favors does greatly appeal to me in my head, my body would disagree. And I have had a pretty good recovery. Nearly no pain at all. Zero pain meds since the day after surgery. But intercourse??? No way! Now, I could give him pleasure, but that's about it.

So, I'm calling bs. I'd say "Pics or it didn't happen," but I don't think that's allowed. Lol

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Happy birthday! Today would have been my mom's 66th. One of my good friends turned 72 today.

I got a good laugh when reading your post. Glad to see you are willing to take one for the team during your recovery!

Funny yes...pics please..lol

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I will say that today, my desire returned but only in my head. I told him in detail what I dreamed about. Then said, it would prob be more like a cuddle on the couch where I let you play with my boobs. Lol.

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I will say that today, my desire returned but only in my head. I told him in detail what I dreamed about. Then said, it would prob be more like a cuddle on the couch where I let you play with my boobs. Lol.

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That is a perfect start!

I'm scared to death now!! Lol My husband and I do not have nor want kids. At 40 and 48 we are enjoying time with our very spoiled dog.

But the fear is reading stories of women getting pregnant not even a year after.

I'm sorry but I just found my belly button kid and I intend to keep it, pierce it, etc...

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I will say that today, my desire returned but only in my head. I told him in detail what I dreamed about. Then said, it would prob be more like a cuddle on the couch where I let you play with my boobs. Lol.

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LOL! Like I said before, the world DEFINITELY needs more women like you! You ROCK!

Don't look back, turn the page, and let your next chapter begin!

I'm scared to death now!! Lol My husband and I do not have nor want kids. At 40 and 48 we are enjoying time with our very spoiled dog.

But the fear is reading stories of women getting pregnant not even a year after.

I'm sorry but I just found my belly button kid and I intend to keep it, pierce it, etc...

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Hilarious! Love your honesty!

Don't look back, turn the page, and let your next chapter begin!

I"m almost three weeks post op and I can't even summon up the energy to have sex with myself.

Hilarious! I must admit I didn't have any problems with low energy, and I had to make sure all my plumbing was working the first night home from the hospital! Lol.

Don't look back, turn the page, and let your next chapter begin!

I'd probably rip a fart and kill the mood. Was that TMI? I doubt it, I think we lost our TMI filter a long time ago on this forum. ;) seriously, so gassy and gross feeling at this point (13 days out) I can wait a bit.

I'm 9 days out and I want to want it, I really do, but omg my belly is still so sore! I don't have bruises but it FEELS like a giant bruise. Hubby tries to play with my boobs and the added sensation is just too much for me. So sad! I hope this doesn't last too long.

With this comment, you win the internet!

I"m almost three weeks post op and I can't even summon up the energy to have sex with myself.

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Three days. That's all I could wait [emoji6]. Nothing better than waking up with your hubby snuggled up spooning behind you on a Saturday morning at full attention [emoji6].

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