I'll start by saying I he my sleeve done 9/9/15. My surgery weight was 320, I'm currently 192.4. My husband and I have been together for 15 years and married for 12. We have 3 boys, 11 year old twins (one is special needs) and a 5 year old. We've always been extremely happy. Everyone we know says the same thing. Always lovey dove you and all that. Up until about a month ago people started commenting to him how great I was looking (the guys at his work) after that he started to seem unhappy. He left us without warning almost 2 weeks ago. He just seems so angry. He's under so much stress at work and having blood pressure issues. I think that plays a large part in it. I just need prayers that he will find his way back to our family. I'm so lost without of him I'm so scared of losing him and I need all the prayers I can get. Thank you in advance.

@@Twinmomma422 Prayers for you and your children! Stay safe - Be strong!

@@Twinmomma422 Prayers for you and your children! Stay safe - Be strong!

Thank you.

Oh honey don't feel stupid. You're dealing with it from all sides. Just know you will get through it, fight for what you deserve, and look forward to a happier safer future.

You might call United Way or other organizations. Our town has a legal service organization that offers services at reduced costs. Will pray for you and your family.

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If he is mentally ill, as you have said, and he is not being treated way for it, he is unreliable, unpredictable and dangerous. Period.

If he wound up in jail for DUI, he will wind up there again. And it won't be so easy to get him out the second time.

What will you do then?

If he has physically abused you, even if it was the first time, it will happen again.

What will you do then?

If you haven't replaced the locks on all your doors, what will he have to do before you do so?

As you've said several times, he's "not himself." And that's why you must replace those locks.