Having second thoughts about my surgeon or having surgery
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I initially met with my surgeon in September of 2015 for VSG. I was referred to him by an old friend who had the same procedure + gallbladder removal by this doctor. To put it nicely, he was/is a lacking in bed-side manner... His eyes were darting around the room more than looking at me while he was explaining the procedure. My mom had went with me on this initial visit and had also noticed that he was very abrupt.
I completed my final nutrition visit last week and went in for my second visit with my surgeon today. I arrived early for my appointment and I sat in the waiting room until they called me back 10-15 minutes after my scheduled appointment. I talked with the nurses assistant for a few minutes while she took my vitals, and then she left and told me my surgeon would be right in. About 30 MINUTES later, my surgeon comes in and we talk for a minute or two, and then his phone starts ringing. He says "excuse me, I need to take this" and walks out of the room. He comes back about 5 minutes later and I was more than a little perturbed at this point. I had a mental list of questions that I wanted to ask him, the first being how much of my stomach he would remove during surgery. He told me that he removes about half of the stomach and I told him that I had heard that some surgeons remove up to 80% of the stomach, and he was very adamant that that was too much and that he leaves a small pouch towards the bottom of the stomach.
Some time back, my friend who had this procedure done before had made a comment to me that she thought her sleeve "didn't work" or that she didn't have very good restriction and she was disappointed because she had only lost 40 lbs her first year and was no where near goal. (I think she even gained some back) I didn't think anything of this when she told me because I saw the surgery as a tool to HELP you lose weight, so I assumed that it was her lack of work that caused her lack of success.
I am extremely nervous that this major surgery that I am going to subject my body to and pay a good amount of money for is not going to be performed as it should be.
The surgeons office is submitting all of my paperwork to my insurance Anthem BCBS of TX... If I get approved, is it too late to switch doctors? Or is 50% removal OK and I should get over his lack of professionalism? It is the combination of these two things that are rubbing me the wrong way.
Appreciate any advice in advance.