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I hate to even post this but it is bothering me so badly!!! Every since i decided i am going to do wls (sleeve) i have no support my supposedly husband wont even go with me to the orientation! !!!!!! I am very hurt and disappointed! !! He keeps saying i am sexy and i look GREAT at a whopping 347 pounds!!!! Is he deranged? ????? He has been trying to talk me out of it since i told him about me wanting wls... i have been thinking about doing wls for about two years now!!! I have made up my mind and if that means i will endure tjis journey ALONE so be it!!!!!!! I just dont understand WHY HE WOULD NOT SUPPORT ME??!!!

i am very dissapointed with him.. smh.. i literally have noone..my mother has to work on my orientation day so she cant come..

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My husband also loves me the way I am, even a month ago at 348, but I DID NOT LOVE ME THE WAY I WAS OR AM!!!!! And that my friend, is self destructive. If I can't be happy with myself, all my relationships suffer. My children suffer, my husband suffers, and my friends and families do as well. Soooo, do something for YOU to love YOU again!!!

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