So we are down in southern CA visiting my husband's relatives and we made our way to Huntington Beach. His mom snapped some very unflattering photos of me and I asked her to not place them on Facebook and she put one on there anyways. I so cannot wait for my surgery and our next visit and I'm going to wear the cutest clothing and be way skinnier and she can snap away. I almost cried when I saw my pics. I think the clothing we wear to cover up makes us look worse but still! They have no idea that I am about to have this surgery and i do not plan on telling anyone until after I've lost a lot and I'm healed.

That's a fantastic outlook I wish you the best. I know you will do well!!

Jdillon , I'm so sorry she took the photos anyway. Why can't others learn to respect ones wishes? I don't know how many times I've been in your situation, a lot of us have.

Best wishes on your surgery to skinny! And Healthy...

So we are down in southern CA visiting my husband's relatives and we made our way to Huntington Beach. His mom snapped some very unflattering photos of me and I asked her to not place them on Facebook and she put one on there anyways. I so cannot wait for my surgery and our next visit and I'm going to wear the cutest clothing and be way skinnier and she can snap away. I almost cried when I saw my pics. I think the clothing we wear to cover up makes us look worse but still! They have no idea that I am about to have this surgery and i do not plan on telling anyone until after I've lost a lot and I'm healed.

Jdillon , I'm so sorry she took the photos anyway. Why can't others learn to respect ones wishes? I don't know how many times I've been in your situation, a lot of us have.

Best wishes on your surgery to skinny! And Healthy...

It's one thing to take the photos, but to post them on Facebook is quite another.