Today I received the tragic news that my Weight Loss Center manager, and RN, Brian Wallace, died this weekend after emergency surgery. He was only fifty years old and left a wife and two children. Brian was a consumate professional, but through his encouragment and constant assistance and reinforcement he became a friend. He had bariatric surgery himself years ago, and had tremendous understanding and empathy for all of us who struggle with weight issues. In large part because of Brian, I weigh 75 pounds less since my surgery, and I'm enjoying a very different life.

I understand you didn't know Brian, but I wanted to share this news with someone who could understand. I also hope all of us will consider the critical importance of these professionals in our lives, and remember they have lives of their own. Brian always showed me pictures of his family when I had my office visits, and told me they were the motivation behind his own weight loss and his career. Now they have lost a husband and father, and I have lost a friend. The weight loss center has said his attitude, smile and encouragment will be irreplaceable. Skills are important, and they will find another competant manager. I just hope they find someone as caring and understanding.

I wish we had more Brians in our office, rather than the blond barbies that enrage my motivation :-) I'm sorry for your loss, warmed by your memories.

I'm sorry for your list my prayers go out to you and his family.

Thought and prayers to all who knew and loved him. Sad to lose a good one.