As some of you know I had complications after getting my sleeve in January, the last couple of months I have improved but I am so scared what the future may hold for me and my sleeve. I want to be one of the people who never have another issue and happily goes through life but I start reading about complications other people get further out (Poor RJ, she should be given medal xxx) and worry what might be. I know this sounds crazy cause no-one can predict the future but it really concerns me. Any thoughts???

Don't borrow trouble. Take life as it comes.

Stay positive and take one day at a time. No one knows what the future holds for any of us. Don't worry about what could happen. Concentrate on the now and how well you are doing and how far you have become ok.

complications - improved but - scared what the future may hold for me and my sleeve

Unhappysleever

i think changing your name would be a positive/step in the next direction!!!!

try not to think of the negative/past "unhappysleever"

ie "newandimprovedsleever"

just a thought

sorry you had complications

I/we can only imagine that things must have been so difficult to deal with

if you - referring to me and others here - have never gone through issues/problems its hard to put ourselves in your shoes

but...........try not to think about "possible" problems

you/me/we/all of us (people in regular life too) must/can only live one day at a time

you'll always sadly remember your past

it is true that problems can arrise at a later time

but you have to move on (easier said than done)

what happens in the future????

I can't predict it - but i can continue to do my best to "mold" it

to maintain/and improve my healthy/happy lifestyle

hope things continue to improve

and your life gets better and better each day

keep up the wonderful job i'm sure you are doing

while we continue to see "less and less" of you

good luck

kathy

Edited June 12, 201412 yr by proudgrammy