I just got off the phone with my mom. I have to stay with her when I have my surgery(I live in mental health housing they dont want to be responsible for my surgery) she tells me that she forgot the day of my surgery(may 28) and that my aunt(a nun) has this big conference to go to and needs my mom to keep an eye on some infirm nuns the week of my surgery. I dont mean to make my mom choose but seriously? Theres a choice? I told her it was the 28th.

I guess I could call my surgeons office and change the date but I did that already.... I wasnt completely comfortable with my 1st date wanted to wait a month.

I really dont want to extend the time.. I was getting used to may 28.

I am just really annoyed I have to stay with her.

This totally sucks right now

Please forgive my whining

I feel for you. I hope it works out.

Talk with your mom about how important that date is for you and you don't want to postpone your surgery. Ask here to tell her sis that she had an obligation .that was already set.and to find someone else. Wasn't this something she knew before her sister's request ? Stand up for yourself. If your mom won't budge..can u stay say someone else's house. After my surgery, I did not need care from someone. However, my daughter did check on me during the day while my husband was set work. Good luck.

I just got off the phone with my mom. I have to stay with her when I have my surgery(I live in mental health housing they dont want to be responsible for my surgery) she tells me that she forgot the day of my surgery(may 28) and that my aunt(a nun) has this big conference to go to and needs my mom to keep an eye on some infirm nuns the week of my surgery. I dont mean to make my mom choose but seriously? Theres a choice? I told her it was the 28th. I guess I could call my surgeons office and change the date but I did that already.... I wasnt completely comfortable with my 1st date wanted to wait a month. I really dont want to extend the time.. I was getting used to may 28. I am just really annoyed I have to stay with her. This totally sucks right now Please forgive my whining

I would talk to her and tell her this is a life changing event..... But just to let u know I didn't need any help after surgery... Felt like a period with some soreness

I hope your mother dan do it, try and see if you have smother family member who can help you or a close friend . I wish you luck .