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Pre-op diet?! Venting having hard time but getting by

I started my pre-op diet.... And I'm having a hard time... Has anyone else gone through this .... I'm suppose to be drinking 3 Protein shakes and 1 meal which is 4oz protien, 1cup salad and 1/2 cup of starch ....

So hard doing this when your husband eats like a cow (he's super thin barely gains weight) and my toddler who I have to fight with him to eat

So all I'm thinking while fighting my child is omg I'm so hungry and I'm seriously begging him to eat (how lucky is he) !!! Which gets me frustrated...

So far I have not cheated and I'm trying hard to keep this up, I want to change my lifestyle and this is the first step so although I'm struggling talking about it does make me feel better

Thanks for reading just venting

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    Yep, the pre-op diet is very hard--but also very important for your liver and the safety of your surgery. Think of it like the morning sickness part of pregnancy; you just have to slog through it to g

  • It's good to vent. We all know these things need to be done but some days they're harder than others :-)

  • I am with you...started my two week pre-op yesterday. Hardest for me right now is the headaches from caffeine withdrawal. My pre-op diet is liquids only, caffeine free, and sugar free jello only. No s

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I have a 1 year old and can so relate! I have tried premier s chocolate and to me its good. You should give it a shot. After drinking muscle milk and whatever else I was so upset that I was going to have to drink this nasty stuff. I was shocked that this one actually tasted good! I hope it gets better for you!! I start mine 12/4 as long as all goes as planned. Seems so far away hut sadly not! Whats ur surgery date ??

Lolol I totally feel the same "oh man I really have to finish this?"

My surgery date is 11/11/13 if all goes as planned ... I'm still waiting for my insurance approve and praying I get accepted ... The doctors office is sure taking their sweet ass time sending the papers to my insurance tho and I'm erring impatient :( I met my surgeon on the 10/16/13 and handed all my clearance letters in so I've been waiting for a while, what I don't get is why give me a surgery date if my surgery hasn't been approved yet ... I hope and pray I do get the ok before my surgery date tho if not I will be devastated :/

Nervous&happy, our journey to this RNY surgery is the same dates. We met with our Surgeon 10-16-13 but I had asked in early October if we could secure a surgery date, since we had everything completed. Thank goodness I did and they were kind enough to comply (11-11-13) because others that met with him on that day have a December surgery date. I know each facility is different so we have to advocate for ourselves in trying to get things moving along in this process. Lol! Best of luck to you!

You have come so far. So close to the losers bench. I would be so happy to be dealing with liquid diet right now. That would mean filial approval.

You got this Don't give up!!! You deserve the successful feeling!

I also thought the pre op liquid diet got easier as it went on, although man oh man did I look forward to my evening meal. I hate protein shakes. I drank chocolate to which I added a touch of mint extract, and even then, I chugged it down and sometimes had to fight to keep it down. My doctor did not want us drinking shakes after surgery, so I have not really had to drink them since, although now I am struggling to get in enough protein on some days, so I am always on the lookout for a new shake to try. I work at Costco and we just got in a new powder, cookies and cream, I will give it a go, but am not hopefull...LOL!

Your doctor's preference for you not subsisting on Protein shakes is unusual, but I'm sure he has good reasons. However, if it is a choice between getting inadequate protein which your body really needs to heal or getting your protein from a shake, logic suggests that you should do what you need to do to get your protein.

Good luck and hope you feel better soon!

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Definitely has gotten easier thank god!!! I found that using 1% instead of skim does improve the taste of the shakes for me yay.... I'm just praying I hear back from my insurance this week fingers crossed ... Being so close the the finish line feels great I just pray and hope the insurance company lets me cross it will definitely try calling on Monday hope you ladies are closer to your goal :) you guys have been a huge support for me

Definitely has gotten easier thank god!!! I found that using 1% instead of skim does improve the taste of the shakes for me yay.... I'm just praying I hear back from my insurance this week fingers crossed ... Being so close the the finish line feels great I just pray and hope the insurance company lets me cross it will definitely try calling on Monday hope you ladies are closer to your goal :) you guys have been a huge support for me

Any luck today ?? Been thinkibg about you! I too havr to kinda start withiut approval yet hoping it all goes through. In 30 days Ill start preop diet. Seems so far away! Keep me posted!!

Drink water before, after and in between the shakes. It will help with the hunger as it will occupy space in your stomach that the shakes dont fill. The qyucker u drink the water the fuller you feel.

Didn't have much of a problem with the pre-op diet and actually don't mind the shakes. But was looking forward to eating actual food after bypass. Had my two month post op appointment yesterday, have 38 lbs to lose and I'm to continue with protein and water, no carbs, no veggies, no fruit. UCK. Thanksgiving I'll only be able to have meat. This is really a challange. About the only thing I can say positive I don't mind the different flavor of shakes I make, but I'm not going to ever crave shakes again in my lifetime, once this is over.

Get unflavored protein powder. It is not flavorless but you can add it to anything like soup, pudding, jello, broth, mashed potatoes etc.. You can also make any flavor shake you want with fruit and other ingredients. Check out Unjury. The chicken soup flavor is really good if you want something savory.

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Any luck today ?? Been thinkibg about you! I too havr to kinda start withiut approval yet hoping it all goes through. In 30 days Ill start preop diet. Seems so far away! Keep me posted!!

I actually had my pre-op testing done today and it doesn't seem as they are canceling my operation so I'm till a go for Monday YAY fingers crossed* as the date approaches I do get nervous I have to admit I had a slip on the pre op diet and I'm praying that's not a problem and wot prevent me from getting the surgery... I just want to cross that finish line already it's so close and I'm so ready to begin my new life to a healthier me hope all is well in your end .. Do you have a date yet

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Didn't have much of a problem with the pre-op diet and actually don't mind the shakes. But was looking forward to eating actual food after bypass. Had my two month post op appointment yesterday' date=' have 38 lbs to lose and I'm to continue with Protein and Water, no carbs, no veggies, no fruit. UCK. Thanksgiving I'll only be able to have meat. This is really a challange. About the only thing I can say positive I don't mind the different flavor of shakes I make, but I'm not going to ever crave shakes again in my lifetime, once this is over.[/quote']

Any advice on stage one clear liquid Protein shots? I mean like what was your drinking schedule did u consume chicken broth?

I actually had my pre-op testing done today and it doesn't seem as they are canceling my operation so I'm till a go for Monday YAY fingers crossed* as the date approaches I do get nervous I have to admit I had a slip on the pre op diet and I'm praying that's not a problem and wot prevent me from getting the surgery... I just want to cross that finish line already it's so close and I'm so ready to begin my new life to a healthier me hope all is well in your end .. Do you have a date yet

Thats awesome! Monday the 11th ? You will have to keep ne posted! I looked over my pre op diet today and was telling some co workers they better give me a limit on those sugar free Popsicles and Jello..with the lack of food I can eat I might could eat a meal in Popsicles!! My date is 12/18. I will be done with requirements on 11/25. Begin pre op diet on the 4th. So we will be crossing our fingers for no insurance issues. The 25th is the week of thanksgiving so lucky me im sure I won't hear anything till the following week!

I am 1 week post op but my diet is still the same as pre op right now I am really digging on sf hot chocolate with a scoop of unjury unflavored...its been my dinner for the past 4 nights lol

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Last day of clear liquid diet until my surgery date and I have to say the whey protein shots are disgusting ! Lol but I managed I wish I could find different brands of clear liquid protein shots but seems impossible .. Unless online and it's too late for that... Anyway hope you ladies are doing great

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