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Well, I go to my pre-op surgery appt. tomorrow at one pm. I hope everything goes well. Then Friday is my preregistration for the hospital. My parents will be coming down on Tuesday so they can get my kids to school the morning of my surgery then they will drive down the pass and be there for the surgery. so on Wednesday the sixth hubby will drive me too the hospital, about 45 min away. My parents are going to stay at my house while i am in the hospital, and hubby will stay with me and sleep at his moms down in San Bernardino.

I wish it was tomorrow. I am scared and want to be on the other side. I just want to wake up and after that, I will not be scared.....it is the anesthesia that frightens me. I have been under for 4 other operations, but each time I have been terrified that I won't wake up. I am also afraid to fail...I don't want to disappoint my family. If you pray, please pray for me. I love the Lord and trust Him, I just don't have very much confidence in me. My surgeon's plan is so strict, I want to follow it and be successful.....I'm just so afraid it won't work .....

Sorry for the whining, I'm just so nervous....thanks for listening

Kat

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I wish you the best, you're going to do great! There's nothing to worry about! You're on the right track. Do your plan by the book and keep us posted on your progress. Soon, you'll look back and read this with a giggle :)

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You're normal to worry!!! That's means you're taking it seriously :) that's a good thing!!!! You've done your homework, you're ready for a change, you'll do great!!!!

HW 312, pre-op (lap-band) 294, pre-op (RNY) 251, surgery date 2/11/13, goal weight 154, current weight 251

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Thank you both....I appreciate the encouragement. I will let you know how my visit goes today.

Kat

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Well' date=' I go to my pre-op surgery appt. tomorrow at one pm. I hope everything goes well. Then Friday is my preregistration for the hospital. My parents will be coming down on Tuesday so they can get my kids to school the morning of my surgery then they will drive down the pass and be there for the surgery. so on Wednesday the sixth hubby will drive me too the hospital, about 45 min away. My parents are going to stay at my house while i am in the hospital, and hubby will stay with me and sleep at his moms down in San Bernardino.

I wish it was tomorrow. I am scared and want to be on the other side. I just want to wake up and after that, I will not be scared.....it is the anesthesia that frightens me. I have been under for 4 other operations, but each time I have been terrified that I won't wake up. I am also afraid to fail...I don't want to disappoint my family. If you pray, please pray for me. I love the Lord and trust Him, I just don't have very much confidence in me. My surgeon's plan is so strict, I want to follow it and be successful.....I'm just so afraid it won't work .....

Sorry for the whining, I'm just so nervous....thanks for listening

Kat[/quote']

Good luck.. You'll do great~~

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Praying for you! Your trust in God will get you thru the surgery and your journey to a new and healthier you!

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Your going to do fine you have someone watching out for you you will se you through this and knows how much your family needs you just look to him and he will guide you on the right path and to much better health. Good luck ill be think about you I'm only 14 days away from mine and we can make it through this because there's someone watching over us

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Hi! Are you in so cal? I'm in riverside and sb is nt far where is your surgery? Best of luck

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I felt the same way going in to my surgery. i just remember telling myself i'd rather at least go in and try then not have my surgery and live in this hell forever!! I'm only 8wks out and believe me as scared as I was being wheeled back for surgery-it was also the most exciting time in my life besides being wheeled back to have my daughter. i knew from that moment on my life would be completely different and NOTHING in the world made me happier at that moment. Just keep good thoughts and constantly remind yourself why this surgery is SO important and God will see you through it all. prayers for you always..Your going to do WONDERFUL

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Good luck.. You'll do great~~

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Thank you Diva. I am feeling a bit better.

Praying for you! Your trust in God will get you thru the surgery and your journey to a new and healthier you!

Thank you for the prayers' date=' that brings me the most comfort!

Your going to do fine you have someone watching out for you you will se you through this and knows how much your family needs you just look to him and he will guide you on the right path and to much better health. Good luck ill be think about you I'm only 14 days away from mine and we can make it through this because there's someone watching over us

You are so right, and I also have an awesome e-mail buddy to talk to right....thank you for all your emails. I am glad to have you on my side. Thank for all your support

Hi! Are you in so cal? I'm in riverside and sb is nt far where is your surgery? Best of luck

.::SurgeryDate 7/25/12::.

Hi jen' date=' Yes I'm up here in Victorville.... In the high desert......my mom-in-law lives in San Bernardino. There are 3 of you down there in that area....you guys should get together and walk....I wish I was closer to you all.

I felt the same way going in to my surgery. i just remember telling myself i'd rather at least go in and try then not have my surgery and live in this hell forever!! I'm only 8wks out and believe me as scared as I was being wheeled back for surgery-it was also the most exciting time in my life besides being wheeled back to have my daughter. i knew from that moment on my life would be completely different and NOTHING in the world made me happier at that moment. Just keep good thoughts and constantly remind yourself why this surgery is SO important and God will see you through it all. prayers for you always..Your going to do WONDERFUL

Thanks ranee, prayers are what I need most. I am totally dedicated to this....It is just the anticipation.... Waiting you know. Thanks for the support.

To all of you. You are awesome. I am so glad I have such wonderful people to support me through this. I am thankful to all of you for responding. God bless and keep you all

Kat

PS....the pre-op went great. I was 2 lbs under my goal so I made his requirement. Still don't have the surgery time...hoping I will get that tomorrow at the preregistration.

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Good luck everything will go fine god willing. I'm nervous too my surgery is Monday and I'm feeling anxious. Any suggestions on what to do to calm down. :)

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I don't know, I'm just going to pray. That helps me. Also like everyone says...focus on why you are doing this. Decide What is the most important thing to you, then keep your mind on that. God bless you on surgery day!

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