It makes me sick to see my husband scarf down greasy cheese burgers, fries, and soda all the time. Its not that I am jealous, I just think about all the grease, carbs, and fat! I think the most sad part is that I was right there with him 3 mo ago! Anyone else feeling this way?

xo Hilary

I thought I was alone on this! Watching others eat to me is terrible!! Now I'm like "are you really going to eat all of that?" Or "That sure is a lot of food on your plate"... Lol its funny how things change!

wow... the same things we were judged for we are now judging others for... sad how our society is. Thank God we a tool to help us overcome the unhealthyness that was once our lives. Here's wishing the same for others.

Judgement? Maybe. Definitely a clear recognition and mirroring of my past behaviors and a desire not to return to that life style. I had to eat every piece of crap that I did to get to where I was that led to the surgery and a new way of life. It is the same way I look at active alcoholism. I can live without booze...I can not live without food. I am committed to a new way of life. Some days I do better than others.

I agree!! I can't believe some if the stuff I are people eat. My husband is included. He's never been overweight actually almost underweight but seeing him eat McDonald or Wendy's is so gross & it smells horrible! I can't believe I used to eat that stuff only 4 months ago....

wow... the same things we were judged for we are now judging others for... sad how our society is. Thank God we a tool to help us overcome the unhealthyness that was once our lives. Here's wishing the same for others.

No judgment here. In my case, I didn't eat out much before WLS. My negative feelings about increased now that I see how bad it really is. I really wish she would do better.

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I haven't had surgery yet-going in in June- but I have been doing 1200 calories and exercising since Christmas Eve. I have been extremely mindful and haven't cheated once, but it has been really hard. I totally empathize with those people that just eat toms of foods/c that was me and still could be! It's truly an addiction, all that sugar, white four, fat, high fructose corn syrup. Even for those who don't struggle with obesity ... That stuff is deadly addictive, the more you have the more you want.