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Feeling lonely

I am 4 months post-op and feeling quite lonely. I wondering if I made the correct decision to have this surgery. Unfortunately, I do not know anyone who has had the surgery that I can talk to. My husband said he would be supportive of my decision to have the surgery but that does not seem to be happening. I'm not looking for people to praise me on all that I have lost. Has anyone else every felt this way, like you have no one to talk to that understands what you are going through.

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  • Vicki Loichinger
    Vicki Loichinger

    That is what we are here for. You can talk to any of us. Ask any questions. Tell us the good and the bad. Somebody here has went through what you are going through and will help you. We WILL prais

  • Well, I have found most of my support to come from this forum. I think a lot of my friends were just worried about how the surgery was and how well I recovered from that. No one seems to understand

  • So sorry you are feeling lonely. My best advice is to vent your frustrations (just like you did) and talk with others who have been in your shoes. Unfortunately, this is a very personal thing and un

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Hi all I have just found this Forum & am I glad to be here !

I have really enjoyed reading some of your posts

This year I have had massive re-gain in weight

Stress drove Me 2 all my old habits

It's not great being here so it's time to do something about it I'm 5 years post op

I'm going to do 5DPT plus I will go for a walk

I have been so depressed its been awful

Will keep u posted with my progress

Welcome Butterfly and you have come to the right place. We are like a little family here and really better, family can be pretty hard on us sometimes, lol. But we are here for each other no matter if it is a good day or bad. Loads of support and info, And people at all stages of their journey. Jump in, share with us some of your tirals and triumphs I just know you can help us as much as we can help you, Again Welcome

Welcome Butterfly and you have come to the right place. We are like a little family here and really better' date=' family can be pretty hard on us sometimes, lol. But we are here for each other no matter if it is a good day or bad. Loads of support and info, And people at all stages of their journey. Jump in, share with us some of your tirals and triumphs I just know you can help us as much as we can help you, Again Welcome[/quote']

Thanks Vicki !

Just had my surgery on da 2nd n every 2hurs I have to get up and walk to prevent bloodclats! Wat I wanna is, is there other ways, or did anyone doctor told them how to prevent it!

Just had my surgery on da 2nd n every 2hurs I have to get up and walk to prevent bloodclats! Wat I wanna is' date=' is there other ways, or did anyone doctor told them how to prevent it![/quote']

Yep I had to do the same !

you need to get up and walk around to prevent blood clots....

Hi, It is very important to walk!! I was non compliant and suffered 3 hospital stays due to infection and pnuemonia. Walking also helps wake up the bowels and keep things moving on the inside. I felt like crap but once I started to comply thing turned for the better immediately. Now I am 6 weeks out and feel fabulous. Good luck.

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