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Feeling Like A Failure!

So the last time I was at the dr in the beginning of April they said I weighed 199 and it's been almost 2 months since then I haven't lost as much as I thought I should a total of maybe 10 were lost, gained again, lost and according to my scale gained again!! I dont know what I'm doing wrong! I could have lost 5 lbs. a month by myself without surgery!! I just don't know what to do anymore it's just not happening for me :(

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I'm calling them today because I need a prescript for my Vitamin d I can't seem to find one that I can take without it feeling stuck! I'm hoping they can get me in within the week! Thank you all for your support and encouraging words!!

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I will definitely keep you all updated!!

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Called the surgeons office today I have an appointment on june 11th.....so hopefully this will get sorted out!!

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Called the surgeons office today I have an appointment on june 11th.....so hopefully this will get sorted out!!

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I think you should go back to exercising 5 days a week until then..

.that way they can't say that's it. You've got all of your T's crossed so to say: )

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Called the surgeons office today I have an appointment on june 11th.....so hopefully this will get sorted out!!

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I think you should go back to exercising 5 days a week until then..

.that way they can't say that's it. You've got all of your T's crossed so to say: )

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I've been walking and I went back from 188 to 181 but it shouldn't be that easy to gain the weight back just because I took a small amount of time off from exercising!

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You're right...do u watch your sodium intake? Do u retain Water? Hormone changes and things make you retain water sometimes. I'm definitely pulling for you over here!: )

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Yep only minimum of sodium!!! Thanks so much panda!

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Yes! High sodium intake cause Water retansion...stay focus you'll do fine if not' date=' then book an appt w/your dietician.[/quote']

I've got an appointment with my surgeon on the 11th so hopefully we will get to the bottom of it!

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Can you get in to see your nutritionist sooner than 6/11? Maybe bringing her some food journals she'll be able to help you figure out the next step in eating that will help?

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I've tried they are all busy until July so the soonest appointment I could get was actually at my surgeons office!!

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ok so now I'm feeling like an even bigger failure I took my measurements for the 1st time in 2 months during this gain and loss process. Here's my measurements since surgery!

01/31/12 1st measurement after surgery on 1/11/12

Calves:

Left: 16 in.

Right: 15 in.

Thighs:

Left: 28 in.

Right: 28 in

Hips: 52 in.

Waist: 53 in.

Belly button: 48 in.

Upper stomach: 39.5 in

Bust: 37.5 in.

Arms:

Left: 15 in.

Right: 13 in.

02/16/12 -25 inches in 2 weeks

Calves:

Left: 15.5 in. -.5 in.

Right: 14 in. -1 in.

Thighs:

Left: 26 in. -2 in.

Right: 25.5 in. -2.5 in.

Hips: 50.5 in. -1.5 in.

Waist: 49 in. -4 in.

Belly button: 41 in. -7 in.

Upper stomach: 36 in. -3.5 in.

Bust: 36 in. -1.5 in.

Arms:

Left: 13.5 in. -1.5 in.

Right: 13 in. -0 in.

03/25/12 -21 inches in 5 weeks = 46 in. in 10 weeks

Calves:

Left: 15 in. -.5 in.

Right: 15 in. +1 in.

Thighs:

Left: 24.5 in. -1.5 in.

Right: 22.5 in -3 in.

Hips: 48.5 in. -2 in.

Waist: 41.5 in. -7.5 in

Belly button: 38.5 in. -2.5 in

Upper stomach: 34.5 in -1.5 in

Bust: 35 in. -1 in.

Arms:

Left: 12 in. -1.5 in.

Right: 13 in. -0 in.

05/25/12 -3.5 inches in 2 months but a gain of 6 inches

Calf:

Left: 14.5 inches (-.5)

Right: 14.5 inches (-.5)

Thighs:

Left: 25 inches (+.5)

Right: 24 inches (+1.5)

Hips: 46 inches (-1.5)

Waist/belly button: 38 inches (-.5)

Upper waist: 35.5 inches (+1)

Bust: 37 inches (+2)

Arms:

Left: 13 inches (+1)

Right: 12.5 inches (-.5)

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now with everything going on I really feel like crap :(

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