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That's pretty much how I identify myself....a non believer. Not an atheist, not an agnostic.....those terms seem like "labels."

I've been meaning to post in this sub forum for a long time, but never got around to it. It needs the dust knocked off of it. I can see why it doesn't get used much. For me, my non belief has absolutely nothing to do with my WLS or my weight loss. It hasn't contributed....it didn't play a role....it damn sure didn't help. It didn't stop me either, any more than my non belief in the tooth fairy. It's just a lack of belief, not a lack of faith BTW. I have faith...just not in religion.

I read an article recently about a group of atheists down in Florida who erected a statue to atheism on public property as a sign of their right to freedom of expression. It was a park bench BTW....which I think shows at least they are practical. But I can't quite get behind the whole act of it. After all, from the outside looking in, erecting the bench is kinda like celebrating their non belief. Making a statement about it. A demonstration if you will. Personally, I don't make statements about my non belief of religion anymore than I make statements about my non belief in Santa Claus....which I put both on the same level. They are the same thing, are they not? Isn't Santa keeping a list of who's naughty and who's nice.....yeah....same thing.

My non belief is just not a factor. Plus...there is no doubt I have a king size problem with authority. I find it hard to accept the rules of it all. The threats and the guilt. The manipulation. The "live this way or else" sense of it all. I don't need it. I can be a moral man and live by my principles without the threat of eternal damnation hanging over my head. Or the promise of the pearly gates...... I don't need to be bribed to do the right thing.

So yeah, I don't have a very high opinion of religion, but I did not start this thread to criticize people who do or debate the merits of atheism. But rather just to dust off the cobwebs of this sub forum and say hey....it's possible to lose weight, get healthy and lead a decent life without the "assistance" of a higher power.

Out of respect for the many believers out there, I posted this in the "atheist" sub forum so you would not have to read it. I'm happy for your response though. However, like I said, to me it's not a debate.

Thanks for listening to my ramblings.

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I actually read an interesting article about autism and atheists. The part of the brain that process religion and faith in an aspie' date=' doesn't function like those who aren't on the spectrum. It goes in hand with their very literal and logical thinking. So she's absolutely not alone. <b>And as parent of a nonbeliever, neither are you :)</b> I'm glad you can find comfort in this forum.[/quote']

I should clarify, I am not a parent. But there are several parents of nonbelieving aspies out there :)

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I should clarify' date=' I am not a parent. But there are several parents of nonbelieving aspies out there :)[/quote']

I'm not a parent of a non-believing aspie....I'm just a non-believing aspie.

Damn I just outed myself. Feels good.

I'm not a parent of a non-believing aspie....I'm just a non-believing aspie. Damn I just outed myself. Feels good.

Ah, join the club!

I'm not a parent of a non-believing aspie....I'm just a non-believing aspie.

Damn I just outed myself. Feels good.

And I for one love you and your non believing

Aspie ways!

Your BFF,

Laura

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Ah' date=' join the club![/quote']

I always knew I liked you for some reason....now I know why.

I've taken that AQ test many times ....the one mentioned in the huff post article. I usually score 38-40. Laura-Ven says I'm still ok....she would know I guess. There's one question in that test that usually makes me laugh out loud....the "would you rather go to a library or a party" question. In high school I went to the library many times when I was supposed to be at a party. But I never went to a party when I was supposed to be at the library...like most kids did.

I'm not a parent of a non-believing aspie....I'm just a non-believing aspie.

Damn I just outed myself. Feels good.

I do not have aspergers, BUT once when receiving the results of those corporate personality/workstyle tests.. the test administrator pulled me aside and suggested I get tested for it. I do not believe I have it, but I definitely have many of the characteristics.

Hubby has it as well. We alway knew she was just like him :) until she got dx we realized so does he :) so in our home we call it cheeseburgers :) . And come to think of it I stopped going. To church when I married him 20 some years ago lol. Thank you all for sharing :) especially those outed. !! U guys are great!

Hubby has it as well. We alway knew she was just like him :) until she got dx we realized so does he :) so in our home we call it cheeseburgers :) . And come to think of it I stopped going. To church when I married him 20 some years ago lol. Thank you all for sharing :) especially those outed. !! U guys are great!

I'm glad we could help :)

I think this is the one I read: http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/1558771

great, another article that makes me realize yet again, that it am half man :)

Good one thanks for posting

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