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Figured the title would draw attention and confuse, haha. Here goes though. I always wear one of those Kimora shapers or Spanx and a pair of tummy flattening underwear wherever i go because of all the loose skin. Still have 50 pds to go before the surgeon who did my sleeve will consider removing loose skin. Getting to the point, when my fiance and I get into it at his place I always leave my top and spanx on just in case someone comes in. He is always trying to get to me underneath them. Any suggestions about other garments that I could wear or any kind of suggestions.

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Have you tried an underbust corset? Kinda kinky and leaves the girls exposed. Then you can put on a light weight robe or open shirt tjen can quickly be thrown clossed if needed.

Also...lock the door. Lol. ;)

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How cute I just read your "kinda thought" thread

(I like to know who I'm talking too) is this the same guy?

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He lives in one of those shotgun style houses with roommates. If we were able to go to my place this would not be an issue or when I get a hotel room (I come up on Saturdays, I live 2 hours away). It's kinda a mood killer having to take off all that stuff and put my top or dress back on.

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Hmm.. Im stumped. I'm at a loss with suggestion on this one. ;) maybe I've been out of college for too long ;D

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Yep, same guy. Though it looks like we'll be getting married next spring (money, uhh). He doesn't care about the loose skin but it still bugs the crap outta me and he doesn't complain about the body shapper, it's just kinda funny. He kinda looks like a cat at a scratching post.

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Yep' date=' same guy. Though it looks like we'll be getting married next spring (money, uhh). He doesn't care about the loose skin but it still bugs the crap outta me and he doesn't complain about the body shapper, it's just kinda funny. He kinda looks like a cat at a scratching post.[/quote']

That's great! About the same guy! Ok I just googled crotchless shape wear?? And guess what there is such a thing!! Who knew :)

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That's great! About the same guy! Ok I just googled crotchless shape wear?? And guess what there is such a thing!! Who knew :)

...and that is one of the reasons you are so darn helpful to the forum members! But, it is true...the Spanx I've had have an "overlapping, open gusset" that technically would allow someone to go potty w/o needing to pull down (I however cannot vouch for if this works)

For the OP, how about a long skirt? You could take the undergarments off but still offer convenient...um...access while maintaining some modesty/ability to cover up. Is a little trickier to figure out something convenient for the top half (lest the girls feel left out)...maybe a big ol' Snuggy that you both could wrap up in.

I have to say, this is an interesting

Challenge!

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...and that is one of the reasons you are so darn helpful to the forum members! But' date=' it is true...the Spanx I've had have an "overlapping, open gusset" that technically would allow someone to go potty w/o needing to pull down (I however cannot vouch for if this works)

For the OP, how about a long skirt? You could take the undergarments off but still offer convenient...um...access while maintaining some modesty/ability to cover up. Is a little trickier to figure out something convenient for the top half (lest the girls feel left out)...maybe a big ol' Snuggy that you both could wrap up in.

I have to say, this is an interesting

Challenge![/quote']

An open gusset you say?? Well I learn something new everyday!! I've never worn shape wear (I should though) but hell I hate being constricted :P

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Go to the Hips&Curves website. They have a NUMBER of beautiful corsets and crotchless panties/pantyhose..

I own several of the steel boned Jaquard corsets and they are really nice :) A bit pricey but with the ability to lace it up tighter it is going to last through a few sizes.

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