While I admit I struggle personally with my husband losing 105lbs to my 20lbs in the last 5 months, I am so proud of him. No one can prepare you for watching your spouse shrink to literally half their size in half a year. There's no forum for spouses of wls, but I've been here on and off since he made this decision. While we've had ups and downs (with his recovery), it was still the best choice he's ever made for himself (and for us, because his life will be so much longer). This surgery really does work, he's living proof. Beyond my shallow struggles baby, I am so proud of you!

Congrats to both of you. You're a a very cute couple. He's doing great (and you too) and lucky to have you as his supporter.

Do your best. There is no manual for any of this journey...and I sure wish there was!

Wow!!