I'm new to this room but have been in VSL talk for a few months. I'm still pre-op approved on 3/27/13 and waiting for surgeon to call me with a date next week. I'm so excited about the journey I'm about to take. I'm a bit nervous about how it will impact my personal life. I'm single but my son's father wants us back together and married. I'm just unsure and need to get myself together before I can commit to anything. Plus who knows the new me may need to get out there and enjoy life before settling down

Listen.. Surgery first. Recover. A few months out depending on how you feel you make the decision that is best for you. For now my advice to you is too focus on yourself. You might get into something now that you might not want after the surgery. Your confidence and high self esteem will help you make much better decisions.

Good Luck and stay strong!

There must have been a reason that you were not together with him currently. Think long and hard at that reason first and don't make any rash decisions. If it is ment to be it will happen. first and foremost take care of yourself, and your son. Good luck on what you chose.

Thanks ladies I am going to focus on me. If its meant to be it will happen!