Mine is not getting his butt in gear to get the paperwork ready for his passport card I am tired of arguing, my mom wants to go with me instead, the boyfriend does not want to be alone with the twins while i am away, any suggestions? He is their stepdad, my husband died from cancer when I was three months pregnant. He does love me and the kids.

Thank you' date=' I hate when I hear "babysit"when it comes to men watching there own children!!

And that goes for "stepfathers" too. Taking care of the children is something both parents do, it is not just the mothers job. And if my husband did not want to care for our children he would not be my husband <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt='' />[/quote']

Exactly!

Amanda Rae