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Disloyal

Does anyone feel like they are breaking up with themselves? Weird I know! It's safe and familiar to be over weight and down on myself. Being miserable is all I know. But at the same time, I'm so ready to end this abusive relationship with myself! 12/26 is the day!!!!

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    I had my surgery on 11/5, and I can relate. I don't see it as breaking up with myself; I see it as breaking up with food.... Something that has "comforted" me for years. Now I'm trying other things to comfort me, and it can be hard on some days!

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    That is a unique viewpoint and worth a philosophical ponder. Hmmmmmm....

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    I prefer to look at it as nurturing my relationship with self. I'm going to love and care for me.

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    I feel like i was more disloyal to myself by getting to 349 lbs. I now feel like I'm coming "back to me." I'm feeling like my old self and saying "sorry i let you get like that!"

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