My boyfriend DON'T want me to have this surgery......was I wrong for telling him NOT to come to da hospital day of surgery???

Boyfriend issues aside, I was glad no-one came in on the day of my op. I really couldn't have paid attention to anyone right after the op (or the following day).

No you were not wrong. You need supportive around you, and you will not feel like having him around if he is not going to be of any help.

I know he don't want me to have it yet I still think he will ....r maybe I was hoping he would still help me as needed .....my mom told me he just don't want me to have it cuz he wants me to stay da size I am n that's y he takes me to all these eating places .......I had gotten down to a size 11 in jr's last year n now I'm in a grown ass woman size 16-18 .....I sit back n think WHAT HAPPENED n all I can remember is eating all da time....he say he love me the way I am n he just wants me to work out on my own ......I tried to get him to read up on da surgery n he want ......I can't let him stop this for me well hell its to late for that anyway......11/26 is my day !!!!

Is it crazy that I still want him there ??? But I don't want him looking at me crazy if I'm in pain r something.....

I am only having my mom come with me the day of my surgery... While my husband is supportive, he really stresses me out with anything medical... And he doesn't really understand much... He isnt stupid or anything he just doesn't get medical talk... My mom is a nurse so she will be the best person to have with me... And then my husband can be home with our son so I will have one less worry.